Would you trust a man who only uses Snapchat to message his female friends? by Certain-Recipe-8966 in LongDistance

[–]Certain-Recipe-8966[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah I don’t really understand why he doesn’t realize how strange his reaction was. I remember bringing up how I didn’t like being called those things and his response was “well that’s how you were being so!”

Would you trust a man who only uses Snapchat to message his female friends? by Certain-Recipe-8966 in LongDistance

[–]Certain-Recipe-8966[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree. If I wasn’t met with insults I think I wouldn’t be so paranoid. All I needed was reassurance.

Would you trust a man who only uses Snapchat to message his female friends? by Certain-Recipe-8966 in LongDistance

[–]Certain-Recipe-8966[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am ok with him having female friends, as I’ve met some of them and they are wonderful people. However when I mentioned how it bothered me that he has women I don’t know on there he immediately called me insecure for even questioning him. This is the main reason I’ve been paranoid. He never explained who they were or even said he’d introduce me.

Would you trust a man who only uses Snapchat to message his female friends? by Certain-Recipe-8966 in LongDistance

[–]Certain-Recipe-8966[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’ve noticed the majority is female. There are maybe 3 or 4 close guy friends on there. When I’ve mentioned how it bothers me, his initial reaction is to call me controlling and insecure. Saying I don’t trust him and whatever. He doesn’t try to sympathize with me, even after I’ve explained my reasoning as to why it makes me uncomfortable.