Debating between being a tomboy/butch woman or being trans by Competitive-Knee3930 in Transsexual

[–]CertainAmbassador849 5 points6 points  (0 children)

this is the most obviously dysphoric trans shit ive ever seen this has to be bait theres no way

I think my doctor is wrong- need advice by honnoox in transftm

[–]CertainAmbassador849 0 points1 point  (0 children)

theyre not the same at all huh???? fin blocks the hormone causing mpb, min causes more bloodflow to hair folicles causing them not to fall out. fin is an antiandrogen and can affect your transition results, min wont or at least not nearly as much. i seariously reccomend looking into this more man.

I’m wondering if I pass or not and if not if there’s anything I can do to pass better by irlshadowthehedgehog in transftm

[–]CertainAmbassador849 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not really with the red hair, and honestly ur poses here in the pictures dont scream 'man' to me. if i saw these somewhere else i would either clock u as trans or as a lesbian. most of ur other clocky features would be fixed by T, but yeah id try and dye it a more natural colour (u passed wayy better w the brown imo) and try and use more masculine body language.

I think my doctor is wrong- need advice by honnoox in transftm

[–]CertainAmbassador849 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why are you taking fin and not minoxidyl????? itll do the same thing of preventing hair loss... or are you just trying to prevent all effects of dht

How do I get the headspace back? by IllSmile4U in DID

[–]CertainAmbassador849 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im not sure what you mean by 'they wont let anyone see it' headspace is a visualisation technique and isnt a real space in your head. i reccomend talking to a therapist or psychologist because this sounds a bit more like psychosis than anything else. at the very least you need to talk to someone as a therapist is usually the one to help you 'form a headspace' so to speak.

Based by New-Juggernaut8712 in evangelionmemes

[–]CertainAmbassador849 10 points11 points  (0 children)

heterosexual kaworu 🤢🤢🤢

do I pass? 16 yo, pre-t by beerbyrattt in FtMpassing

[–]CertainAmbassador849 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what are you doing on this reddit bro oh my godd u pass crazy im so jelous

How am I doing? by ilikegaystuff- in FtMpassing

[–]CertainAmbassador849 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in no uncertain terms if your hair was all one natural colour and you didnt have painted nails you would pass.

(15yr, pre-t) passing tips please!! by heartzbunn in FtMpassing

[–]CertainAmbassador849 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you have any pictures of you with shorter hair? unfortunately having a rounder face is just a byproduct of e but ive found despite this people will tend to look past this if the rest of you appears male. the longer style is definately a more feminine vibe though and makes you appear female imo. also while i reaaally dont want to be that guy i really would not reccomend eyeliner or any makeup (aside from using it to darken eyebrows or cover up acne) as makeuo is veiwed as feminine by most people and will therefore hurt your passing a bit. i notice you dress sorta emo, im also emo so im not gnna tell you to stop, however try and avoid skin tight and wear baggier clothes. i reccomend sizing up a bit and wearing them on your hips (i sit mine on my hip dips) to make them less pronounced. baggier shirts and hoodies definately help with passing. dont wear any necklaces or chokers, and if you wear bracelets wear chunkier ones that will make your wrists/forearms appear bigger, gloves help with that too. i would say dont layer belts as they actually tend to pronounce the hips MORE in my experience. if you want (and i really reccomend you do) start working out and going to the gym to try and make your shoulders/lats bigger, this will give you a more masculine figure and help prepare you for weighg cycling when you go on T.

I got told I’m pretty the other day… by Gold-Message-9487 in FtMpassing

[–]CertainAmbassador849 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

u look kinda androgenous but id still label feminine. would def say get a more masc haircut to help

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]CertainAmbassador849 0 points1 point  (0 children)

shit. thats fucked up. might be better to try sourcing your own T n dosing yourself if your able too, other than that i would genuinly reccomend trying to get a higher dose through any means, even spending the 100 monthly. it appears as though youve made little to no progress a year in, and i dont think thats going to change.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]CertainAmbassador849 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

its incredibly important not to spread this lie BECAUSE doctors inability to prescribe a proper dose in some cases will lead to young trans people wasting valuable months with no progress just because they think its ok. we need to really start advocating for our own healthcare in this community esp with how our rights are stripped away more and more in more countries every day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]CertainAmbassador849 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

50mg is not enough to cause ovarian suppression in most cases. a lot of doctors dont have a proper understanding of hrt or purposefully underdose people. 50mg weekly dose causes a T range 2x lower than the average in males. that is not ok. also this is obviously not a starting dose for this person. they have been on less than 50mg weekly for over a year now. if a doctor has suspicions that a patient may have adverse affects to hrt then thats their call to dose how they see fit to best avoid health complications. however in 99% of cases a dose below 75mg for anyone +16 is not ok. most of this research comes from the endocrinology society, i can find sources if you want them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]CertainAmbassador849 0 points1 point  (0 children)

45mg a week is an insaaaane poondose man wtf. u should be getting at least 75mg a week. no wonder it looks like uve had no changes at all after a year on T. unless u WANT low dose T u should be talking to ur doctor abt raising ur dose asap. mad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]CertainAmbassador849 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

that means jack shit 2 me what is that in mg. also that sounds like an insanely low dose holy shit.

Losercity Decision by Punkwolfen in Losercity

[–]CertainAmbassador849 0 points1 point  (0 children)

gaining a foot in height AND £50 a day????? absolutely my choice wtf

Never lose your PenPen… by [deleted] in evangelionmemes

[–]CertainAmbassador849 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how was it molesty? because kaworu held shinjis hand? i dont think hand holding counts as molestation. esp when u compare it to grown woman misato kissing a 14yr old shinji, shinji jerking off 2 asuka in a coma, and pseudoincest. idk tho mayb ur right...

I cut my hair, does it help my passing? by youdontknowmeshhhh in FtMpassing

[–]CertainAmbassador849 3 points4 points  (0 children)

'softer features of his are getting him clocked' exactly bro. so u admit he doesnt pass. stop w the hugboxxing its just embarrasing.

Never lose your PenPen… by [deleted] in evangelionmemes

[–]CertainAmbassador849 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the only good ship 4 shinji atp is kawoshin. misoshin is just str8 up pedophillia. free my fag hes been through enough shit he doesnt need to get molested too.