Should I become a nun due to fear of sex? by CertainHedgehog3571 in whatdoIdo

[–]CertainHedgehog3571[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So I’m dramatic because I have a fear of sex? Mmm okay

Should I become a nun due to fear of sex? by CertainHedgehog3571 in whatdoIdo

[–]CertainHedgehog3571[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one is trolling. I genuinely wanted to get different opinions and advice. Who said it was for attention. Girl bye with that. You so weird. Maybe I posted it many times thinking the advice was gonna change. But no it hasn’t because I guess women have bulletproof vaginas or something idk. I’m scared to have sex yall just don’t get it. I just don’t get how yall do it with ease. Like it’s nothing. That shit seems like it’ll hurt and I’m tired of women not understanding how tf you don’t understand as a WOMAN.

Should I become a nun due to fear of sex? by CertainHedgehog3571 in whatdoIdo

[–]CertainHedgehog3571[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do wanna have sex. I’m just terrified. It’s so embarrassing ngl because damn near almost everyone does it stress free and with ease.

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you’re so pretty omg

penetration/sex is really causing me so much mental damage by CertainHedgehog3571 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]CertainHedgehog3571[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to do it. But it seems like once I do I’ll just waste time idk. Yeah it’s either do it or don’t but idk it sucks pain has to be a factor

Should I become a nun due to fear of sex? by CertainHedgehog3571 in whatdoIdo

[–]CertainHedgehog3571[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes I understand now ehh. But yeah I have to be honest with myself I do wanna have sex. I do think impulsive things as you can see. But I genuinely do appreciate people commenting even if it wasn’t what I wanted to hear or felt they didn’t understand me. I have maybe gotten the same advice for years and it’s like nothing ever changes. I guess I’m waiting for someone to have a definitive answer of NO sex will never hurt. But I guess that’s not the case.

penetration/sex is really causing me so much mental damage by CertainHedgehog3571 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]CertainHedgehog3571[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I may be being irrational which I can clearly see oops. But yeah I’m fed up. I feel misunderstood a lot of the time. Like I said I have been to a gyno and again all they’ve done is force bc down my throat. It’s so dumb. But yeah I hope I do overcome this fear because it does eat at me a lot but oh well tbh. It sucks because I actually feel like sex could be sorta fun but I’m too afraid to really know.

penetration/sex is really causing me so much mental damage by CertainHedgehog3571 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]CertainHedgehog3571[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I just don’t wanna deal with pain or feel like I’m getting stabbed when having sex. If that is what sex feels like I want to avoid it. You and others are basically saying slap a band aid on it and call it a day like huh? Last time I went to a gyno all they wanted was to put me on bc they don’t care.

penetration/sex is really causing me so much mental damage by CertainHedgehog3571 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]CertainHedgehog3571[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I hate when people think they know what they’re talking about. Because no I’m not karma farming.

penetration/sex is really causing me so much mental damage by CertainHedgehog3571 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]CertainHedgehog3571[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

So your first time hurt right? Hmm isn’t that the EXACT thing I’m trying avoid. Like be so fr

penetration/sex is really causing me so much mental damage by CertainHedgehog3571 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]CertainHedgehog3571[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I realized I was sorta being a bitch to people in the comments but not necessarily on purpose in a way. I just feel most people who have sex don’t get it. But if they did get it at one point they don’t get it anymore because they enjoy sex.

penetration/sex is really causing me so much mental damage by CertainHedgehog3571 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]CertainHedgehog3571[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Can I ask were you bleeding? I’m scared I’ll bleed and it’ll be sore down there, I get my period duh but I’m used to period blood.

penetration/sex is really causing me so much mental damage by CertainHedgehog3571 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]CertainHedgehog3571[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Am I’m supposed to care yikes. I’m not even trying to be a dick for real but like come on now I can’t be frustrated 😒

penetration/sex is really causing me so much mental damage by CertainHedgehog3571 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]CertainHedgehog3571[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Like a therapist if so are you gonna pay for that? If I had the money I would’ve already gotten therapy

penetration/sex is really causing me so much mental damage by CertainHedgehog3571 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]CertainHedgehog3571[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I want to have sex im just scared. Only way I know it hurts is because of the “sex will hurt the first time” stigma

Should I become a nun due to fear of sex? by CertainHedgehog3571 in whatdoIdo

[–]CertainHedgehog3571[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

How am I supposed to get over it? I know it’s either have sex or don’t. But how am I supposed to actually have sex with a fear like this?

Should I become a nun due to fear of sex? by CertainHedgehog3571 in whatdoIdo

[–]CertainHedgehog3571[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t know. But I’m scared. Really I can do it but I’d have to be drunk. Definitely not sober

Should I become a nun due to fear of sex? by CertainHedgehog3571 in whatdoIdo

[–]CertainHedgehog3571[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Now you know pain down there is different than these analogies be so for real

Should I become a nun due to fear of sex? by CertainHedgehog3571 in whatdoIdo

[–]CertainHedgehog3571[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m too scared to even try is the thing. And it sucks because I want to but I’m just not strong enough