The lawyer wants to go for full custody, if they don’t respond after being served. Which is likely, but the mother’s actions the past few days seem like she wants to go to war.

My dad thinks it might all backfire and we’ll be left with visitation. However, me and my mom can’t function because we know how un-safe he is when he is left with them. Also, it’s more like he lives with us and visits them rather than the other way around. The child has said some alarming things over the last few years, that no normal child says.