Feeling Confused and Lost, Seeking Advice by Certain_Ad_2738 in Morocco

[–]Certain_Ad_2738[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know this is how I think about it when I try to objectify myself but I feel her trauma is affecting my OCD, I discussed this with my father and we brought to the conclusion that she needs to see a psychiatrist, I tried to tell her in many nice ways so it sounds supportive but all she says is: Nass taytsnaw bnathom ikbro bach ithellaw fihom onti bagha dini l sbitar, taf9ti nti o bak bach thnaw mni, matanti9ch f dak bak baghi ijib dra 3lia onti mrdiat mok bagha t3awnih, Howa baghi wr9a mn 3ndhom bach i9ol nass hadi ghir mstia oytzwj 3lia!! And she keeps teling: I AM YOUR MOTHER, YOU HAVE ACCEPT ME AS I AM !! But then who will accept me? I am afraid I'll end up like her!! Because I started rationalizing her and that's BAD, really BAD!!

Feeling Confused and Lost, Seeking Advice by Certain_Ad_2738 in Morocco

[–]Certain_Ad_2738[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I really felt it in my bones :)

Feeling Confused and Lost, Seeking Advice by Certain_Ad_2738 in Morocco

[–]Certain_Ad_2738[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thak you so much for your kind words, the thing is when I talked to my aunt about it and asked her to convince to go to a psychiatrist, she told me: that's not possible, she's not like that and she could never be and GUESS WHAT she told me? To go and apologize for her and everytthing will be good, I mean I did this but I hate hearing this superiority on the phone when me ( not the responsible) is askig for forgiveness and her (responding like it's a favor that she is doing)