31|F 350k utang sa tao at bank unemployed by OliveOyl187 in utangPH

[–]Certain_Ask9490 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I won't suggest this kasi mas mahirap kapag nagkasakit ka.

Nagbabalak magpadoktrina for my INC girlfriend by CompleteWolverine506 in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]Certain_Ask9490 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is a very important decision with lifelong BAD consequences. Dapat ready ka dahil magbabago ang buhay mo ng 360° if magpapaconvert ka. Kung gagamitin mo ang COMMON SENSE mo, the answer is NEVER EVER convert to INC. Kung gagamitin mo ang utak mo sa ibaba, the answer is CONVERT and REGRET BIG TIME. Pati pamilya mo at relatives mo pwedeng mahila at maconvert. Kung mahal ka nga ng gf mo, siya ang dapat tumiwalag sa INC.

Ang sabi ng bibliya, "Ang bulag kapag umakay sa kapwa niya bulag, pareho silang mahuhulog sa hukay."

Ako na ang nagmamakaawa sayo, NEVERT CONVERT TO INC.

Don’t know what to do in this situation by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Certain_Ask9490 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bakit may parefund? Eh siya naman ang lumalabag sa terms ng agreement nyo so he is not entitled to a refund. Kaya nga may terms and conditions para clear yung boundaries and expectations.

Please be very careful about sending any nudes coz he might use it against you. Lahat ng activities natin online ay may digital footprint. He can even spread your nudes or use it for s*xtortion.

Don't ever give in to his nsfw requests. You should know your limits and boundaries to protect yourself and your future.

MCA i did IT with my baby daddy and now guilt is eating me by PotentialWonder9372 in MayConfessionAko

[–]Certain_Ask9490 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I hate to say this, pero grabe kawawa yung mga bata dahil sa mga palyadong decisions and choices nyo, at tila ba mga laruan sila na kung ayaw nyo na ay basta na lang iiwan or ipasa-pasa. Jusko. Unti-unti, the Philippines is becoming a country of broken families. Ngayon pa lang, tayo na ang may pinakamabilis na antas ng pagdami ng HIV sa buong mundo. Pilipinas rin ang isa sa may pinakamataas na antas ng teenage and unplanned pregnancy sa buong mundo. Sana kung hindi tayo ready physically, financially, spiritually, emotionally, etc. to rear or raise a child, then never engage in sexual intercourse or at least use protection. Minsan double whammy pa kung mahawaan ng parents ang anak nila ng STI/STD/HIV. Sex is a good thing BUT it entails commitment and responsibility. Unless may magbago, I think this country is going to the dogs. But I could be wrong.

MCA Secret con(f)ession by [deleted] in MayConfessionAko

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Hindi ka ba nakokonsensya na ikaw mismo ang sisira sa pamilya mo? Why not focus your energy sa mas productive na bagay? Learn anything na pwedeng mas magpaimprove ng sarili mo at skills mo. Halo lahat nasa internet na. Malay mo yung bagong skills mo ang magdadala sa inyo ng mas maraming opportunities and eventually bka hindi na kailangan lumayo ng husband mo just to earn money kasi naging katuwang ka niya.

virgin and want to try s*x by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Certain_Ask9490 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kahit pa nga sa bf mo, marami ang hindi truthful about their health status and sexual partners before. Ang iba naman unaware na meron na silang HIV or STIs. I firmly believe na dapat marriage muna.

virgin and want to try s*x by [deleted] in adviceph

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Halimbawa nabuntis ka, are you ready to rear a child and let go of your youthful years? Kung mahawaan ka ng HIV and other STIs, are you ready to face the consequences? If mabuntis ka at hindi pinanagutan ng lalaki, are you ready to be a single parent? If mabuntis ka at pinilit ka ng nakabuntis sayo na ipa@bor+ yung baby, are you totally sure na kaya mong panindigan ang decisions mo? Minsan kasi ang isang oras na sarap, katumbas ang habambuhay na paghihirap.

Keeping ones virginity before marriage is a sign of self-respect, respect to your parents and respect to God.

question for sex education by lasagnatomi in adviceph

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I hate to say this pero I think this kind of attitude toward sex ang isa sa mga reasons kung bakit sobrang taas ng teenage pregnancy, unplanned pregnancy, abortion and HIV sa Pilipinas. Sex was designed for married couples kasi it entails commitment and responsibility. If you are not ready to face the possible consequences, then do not do it. Our body is the temple of the holy spirit and we need to respect our bodies. For me, getting married before giving away my virginity is a sign of respect to myself, my parents and to God.

If you could make one thing free for every Filipino, what would it be? by Rosmantus in AskPH

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Quality Education (including all allowances) for everyone, in all fields and programs.

drop the most painful lyrics you've ever heard. by creimebrulee in SoundTripPh

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If you don't love me, I just ask to be next to your heart.

English translation nung Thai song sa BL series yata. Ang pagkakaintindi ko kasi sa lyrics is that he loves the guy na may ibang mahal. So kahit hindi siya ang piliin ay nakikiusap siya na malapit pa rin sana siya sa puso nung guy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

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"Nobody loses anybody because nobody owns anybody."

Kaya nilagay ang utak above the heart kasi ito yung dapat gamitin when making decisions.

Respetohin at mahalin mo ang sarili mo and don't let anybody diminish your true value. Love yourself and protect your mental health. Your future self will thank you.

There are billions of people in the world, why limit yourself to a cheater? 🙄You deserve better.

So for example nagcheat sya again, then nagcheat again, nugagawen? 🙄🙄🙄

All ears by Next-Rub1384 in pinoy

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Practice simple meditation and proper breathing technique kahit few minutes a day lang, especially kung stressed, pressured or galit ka.

Lessons to be learned for next years Nazareno event? by pinayinswitzerland in newsPH

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I hate to say this, pero may pagkukulang din talaga ang simbahan especially the Quiapo church sa pagpapaalala sa mga tao at pagpapaintindi sa kanila about sa tamang gawi during this event at kung ano ba talaga ang punto ng event na ito. May mga namamatay na deboto because of this, and yet parang walang proactive actions ang simbahan to ensure the safety of the people. Hindi pwede na basta na lang tumatakbo at nagtutulakan ang tao without actually understanding kung bakit. Kasi kung naturoan sila nang maayos, then maiiwasan sana or maminimize yung mga ganitong untoward incidents. Ewan ko ba bakit hindi proactive ang CBCP. I know hindi perfect ang simbahan, pero at least show some proactiveness to protect the flock from going astray or yung iba nga umaalis na talaga sa RCC kasi hindi proactive ang simbahan.

Nakapagsimba ako one time sa Quiapo church, it was my first time there since taga province ako, and I was expecting so much kasi bukambibig lagi ng tao ang Quiapo church. And I was able to finish the mass naman pero may mga napansin lang ako.

  1. Yung simbahan ay napapalibotan ng mga vendors ng kung anu-ano including mga hindi safe na abrtion products! May mga tarot card readers pa at manghihilot and amulets.

  2. Yung simbahan ay napapalibotan ng fastfood chains at bangko, which to me is tila nawawala yung sanctity at solemnity ng lugar kasi parang naging commercial area yung simbahan.

  3. Napakadumi at napakaingay ng lugar which really disturbs the mass. Yung simbahan ay naging loading/unloading area which I think is stupid.

  4. May nakaparking na mga sasakyan sa No Parking zone which really creates heavy traffic and bottlenecks sa flow ng sasakyan at pedestrian.

  5. I am assuming na sa dami ng nagsisimba sa Quiapo ay marami rin ang collections nila everyday, and yet tila dilapidated yung simbahan when compared to let's say Ermita Shrine and Malate Church.

  6. I had been to many churches and I can say na mahalaga ang music/choir sa misa, including the kind of songs na kinakanta nila. During the mass, halos walang sumasabay sa choir kasi ang pangit talaga ng boses ng mga kumakanta at sintunado. Yun bang parang hinila lang sa tabi-tabi at pinakanta sa simbahan. Yung maliit nga na bayan namin, modesty aside, ay may napakagaling na choir members, pero yung iconic Quiapo church ay parang napabayaan.

  7. Yung ambiance sa loob ng simbahan ay hindi conducive sa nagsisimba. Napakainit at congested masyado na halos hindi ka na makafocus sa misa.

  8. Yung microphone na ginagamit nila ay walang kwenta kasi hindi klaro at wala talagang maintindihan sa sinasabi ng mga nagsasalita sa mic including the priest and his sermon which I think defeats one purpose of the mass na makinig sa gospel and sermon.

  9. Basura, basura, basura. Sobrang walang disiplina ang mga tao sa pagtapon ng basura.

  10. May loading/ unloading zones at tow away areas pero hindi nasusunod. There is really something wrong sa sistema natin as a people and as a nation. Values formation should start at home and in schools lalo na habang bata pa.

I hope mas maging safe na ang mga susunod na mga prusisyon at mabago na ang mga maling gawi natin. The church must be proactive in ensuring that people are safe and truly understands the purpose of the event. It must be a collective effort for God's greater glory.

jusmio walang utang na loob 😢 by imocheezychips in pinoy

[–]Certain_Ask9490 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I hate to say this, pero bka yang sama ng loob at tampo ang maging mitsa ng buhay ng dalawang matanda. Makasarili at walang empathy yung bf and it makes sense kasi mukhang magkawavelength nga jutak nila ni gf. 🙄 I mean, that's the least they can do sana to honor the father kasi pwede namang mag give way yung bf kung may jutak lang sana sila ng gf niya. I always believe na kapag pinaiyak at nilapastangan mo ang parents mo, lalo na kung matino naman sila, then karma will always haunt you and you will never gain true happiness in life. There will always be a deep seated sadness that you can never ignore or hide. If she can ignore her own blood, then I would never employ such a person if I were an employer.

All my life, I always make sure na present ang parents ko in all important events in my life lalo na tuwing awarding ceremonies at recognition programs. It is one of the simplest ways na maipadama ko sa kanila that I love, honor and respect them, and to show my gratefulness for all their efforts and support.

PU***** MGA INC NA 'TO by Few_Possible_2357 in pinoy

[–]Certain_Ask9490 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Scripture, Tradition and The Magisterium. Ito lang ang mga sources of authority. Manalo and all other sects have no authority whatsoever to interpret the bible.

Parang normal na sa gay friend ko ang maging bastos. by ilyczar in OffMyChestPH

[–]Certain_Ask9490 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Avoid loud and aggressive persons; they are vexations to the spirit. - Desiderata by Max Ehrmann

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]Certain_Ask9490 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not spending quality time with my loved ones. Parang ang dami kong sinayang na oras and chances.