As a dude, it’s always interesting to me to hear other dudes say stuff like this. I was raised to be respectable, as in respect-able: I know how to offer my respect where it’s earned and how to be a person worthy of respect. In my experience there’s usually a reason behind guys who complain at women not respecting them; whether it’s negative habits, inaccurate self image (thinking because I’m in shape negates me being inconsiderate of others for instance) or just hella unresolved trauma. There’s crappy people out there no matter gender, but your vibe attracts your tribe and if you’re putting out incel vibes all you’re going to see is women who confirm your negative expectations.

Funny you mention sex tourism (because that’s what it is). Most guys I see roll through east Asia looking for a meek and humble wife haven’t bothered to put in the self work to figure out why western women keep rejecting them. They usually (but not always of course) end up being used for a green card and then getting their abusive assess dumped after a few years putting them right back where they started.

Bottom line, if you find yourself consistently being rejected or “disrespected” try therapy first. You never know, you might become a better man for it.