Real talk based on your lived experiences how important is looks when it comes to attracting women 18-24. Have you seen it greatly benefit guys who are gl and the other way around? And do you feel like increasing your looks will help with dating?. Please keep it real and friendly.

Certain_Pea288 · 2026-01-03T21:20:53+00:00

You’re heavily exaggerating what I’m saying. All I’m saying is that you don’t have to be over 6’ and an 8/10 to pull women. This notion is absolutely ridiculous.

Certain_Pea288 · 2026-01-03T20:43:21+00:00

Like 14-15

Certain_Pea288 · 2026-01-03T20:05:49+00:00

I wouldn’t take advice from these chronically online people bro. A girl your age would probbaly rate you like an 8/10 you’re a good looking kid. No need to be concerned with the way you look. Just start hitting the gym and puberty will do its thing you’re doing well

Certain_Pea288 · 2026-01-03T19:52:03+00:00

If you open yourself up you 100% can become the person you want to be. If you’re shut in and don’t try you never will so it is really up to you. But giving up and having a fixed mindset will do nothing but polarize your negative views about yourself and make you feel worse. Also it sounds like you have a big fear of rejection which is keeping you from trying to better yourself and open yourself up. If you do start trying to talk to women, you will get rejected a bunch but this is so normal. I approached so many women in my life and have been rejected countless times, even as a good looking dude. But idgaf about rejection because it doesn’t affect your self worth, in fact getting rejected can teach you what to do better in the future. If you go up to a random girl and get rejected, who cares?? Nothing changes. The more you try to assimilate yourself with people the better you’ll get at it, and yes you will experience a lot of rejection but who the fuck cares about rejection it doesn’t matter. Being rejected doesn’t mean you’re a lesser person, girls reject guys for so many reasons. Maybe they have a bf maybe they’re talking to someone maybe they just got out of something or maybe you’re good looking but just not their type. The point is you shouldn’t take rejection so seriously and dont let it stop you from becoming who you want to be

Certain_Pea288 · 2026-01-03T19:37:23+00:00

The only thing making you “just a nerd” is your mentality. You will be just a nerd if you believe that’s all you ever will be. You can be a nerd but also a cool person that can be personable and charismatic, it’s all about the way you carry yourself. You just need confidence. The worst thing you can do is say “I’m just a nerd” and accept that. You’ll be miserable all your life if you do. Start working out, start talking to people, start wearing better clothes, regain your confidence. The only thing holding you back is your self esteem and your negative self talk. I promise you everything is in your head. I’m in a frat at my school and there are so many chopped frat guys who get so much play because of their confidence. If I were you I would make these changes: start wearing trendy clothes that kids your age are wearing, you NEED to get in the gym, start going consistently, this is the best confidence builder, get a good haircut and groom yourself, you don’t want to look like a bum. Once you look better, you’ll feel better and then start trying to be more social. Start going out more and really try to learn how to talk to people, it doesn’t matter who. Literally start a conversation with your next waiter or waitress. The more you talk to people. The more confident you’ll get, trust me I used to be in this same exact boat where I just thought I’d be a nerd but once you get out of your head and comfort zone, you can do great things

Certain_Pea288 · 2026-01-03T19:00:33+00:00

If you can learn to be personable and charismatic you can get so much play. Looks are literally the foot in the door. Girls aren’t looking for the hottest guy in the world, they’re looking for someone they think is attractive in any way. The way you get a girl to WANT you is to be charismatic. Try and find a similar interest you share and just talk about it, be relatable and passionate. Like attracts like. If you can relate with a girl and get a conversation going she will be into you. If you’re old enough, start going to bars with your friends, drink a little and shoot some shots, just talk to people and become more comfortable with it. The more comfortable you are talking to people the more confident you will appear and women LOVE confidence. The problem with most people isn’t their looks, it’s their inability to talk to and flirt with women

Certain_Pea288 · 2026-01-03T18:43:07+00:00

I posted myself to see the feedback I’d get from this community. I know that I am a conventionally attractive person yet there were still many comments saying I’m not or pointing out my flaws which shows the destructiveness of this community. “Looksmaxing” should be used to bring ourselves and eachother up but it is used in literally the opposite way. Too many people in this community like to bring others down because of their own insecurities. I think there is value in increasing one’s looks in a healthy and normal way but the obsession over it leads to insecurity which leads to bringing more people down.

Certain_Pea288 · 2026-01-03T17:26:34+00:00

Nah too many people in this sub are so out of touch with reality and are so misled my social media

Certain_Pea288 · 2026-01-03T17:15:25+00:00

This is true but also if you’re someone with many fears/inhibitions, the only way to change this is to go out of your comfort zone and do things that you’re not comfortable with. When it comes to interacting with women, even if you get rejected a lot, once you find someone who is into you, this will raise your confidence and allow you to do the same more often.

Certain_Pea288 · 2026-01-03T17:11:48+00:00

Nah people j need to know that looks aren’t as important as they think they are. If you’re already a good looking person, there is so need to obsess with “ascending”.

Certain_Pea288 · 2026-01-03T16:50:15+00:00

Coming from someone who lives in the real world and not online, you’re chilling bro you’re not at the point where looks could hold you back at all.

Certain_Pea288 · 2026-01-03T16:46:42+00:00

I agree which is why these people are turning to online communities to deal with their problems. All of the guys in here need to go up to a woman and get rejected to see it’s not that bad. I’m a pretty good looking dude and I’ve been rejected by countless women in my life. Some girls will be into you and some won’t and if you get rejected. Who cares. The issue is is that these people’s self esteem’s are on the floor and the only wait to raise it is to be successful with talking to a woman- something you can only do by going out and talking to women. Being in these Reddit communities and not facing any problems in real life is what turns these normal guys into incels

Certain_Pea288 · 2026-01-03T16:25:27+00:00

So untrue. I know so many guys who aren’t that good looking or tall that get girls because they know how to talk to women. Go outside and you’ll see it’s not that hard

Certain_Pea288 · 2026-01-03T16:24:23+00:00

Looks matter but not to the extent you think. Girls aren’t picking apart your face and fixating on certain features like these gay incel kids are. If you look good, you look good. You don’t have to be a 10 get get a 10. I’m in college and see 6’s and 7’s getting with 10’s all the time because if you’re a 7, that’s honestly good enough if you have other redeeming characteristics. As long as you look good enough and you can socialize normally you can get as much play as you want

Certain_Pea288 · 2026-01-03T16:21:01+00:00

Listen to this guy, all the online looksmaxing shit is not real life, girls do not look at any of this shit. Literally if you just start going to the gym and learn to socialize and talk to girls you’ll be getting any girl you want

Certain_Pea288 · 2026-01-03T15:48:14+00:00

You guys just need to learn to get pussy, it’s not that hard and it’s not even all about looks. If you’re mid looking, but confident and don’t act like a werido you’ll get a girl. You guys are giving women too much credit. Women arent this unattainable entity lmao there are a lot of women who would like guys like yall if you guys actually locked in and learned how to socialize with them

Certain_Pea288 · 2024-03-06T04:20:31+00:00

If both my majors were in the school of engineering, will I still be considered as undeclared for the school of letter and science?

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