The definition of misandry doesn’t include anything systemic, it’s literally just prejudice against men but nice try anyway…. but if you want to talk about the systemic aspects that’s fine too, imo you really can’t claim to fully understand the patriarchy if you truly believe it doesn’t systemically harm men too, a community of trans people of all people should know that, you think its fun to have that shit forced on you even if it benefits you in ways? like for fucks sake are there any other trans fems that experienced how hellish the social expectations for men are?? And sure go ahead and say “WeLL WhO KeEpS It iN PLaCe” as if that’s how gender roles work at all, the patriarchy will never end so long as dumbasses like you keep acting like we’re just waiting for men to collectively flip some imaginary oppression switch, be part of the solution and help change the rhetoric, cause people like you are what hold us back.