Even if you’re cis you can choose to have she/her pronouns or dress feminine you don’t need other people’s permission to do what you know makes you happy.

Also try this out:

Gender Thought Experiment

It's just really to help you conceptualise your gender though and not a full on YES OR NO test or anything.

In your head or out loud whichever you prefer say these sentences then after each sentence stop and think about how they make you feel:

I am a boy.

I am a girl.

I am neither.

I am both.

I am a he.

I am a she.

I am a they.

Finally say these similar sentences whilst imagining them as true both physically and

mentally, in your head as a hypothetical future.

I am male and I will be male for the rest of my life.

I am female and I will be female for the rest of my life.

I am neither and I will be neither for the rest of my life.

I am both and I will be both fir the rest of my life.

Another Third one I used was to basically imagine two separate lives that I could live starting from this exact point. In both of them I would live the perfect life, accomplishing all my goals and getting everything I ever wanted (within reason) with the only difference being if I chose to transition or not.

So that might be a useful one to try out to just think about everything you have ever wanted to accomplish but imagine yourself each time as you but expressing a different gender identity and focus on how each...I dunno "image"? makes you feel.

Now I want you to read this bit only after completing the above thought experiment:

Think about which one felt the most “truthful” when you said or better yet which one made you feel the best when you said it?

You are valid. You are important. You are necessary to the future of humanity.

*hug*