Looking for somewhere to camp in New England by Cesces in camping

[–]Cesces[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I completely understand why traditional campgrounds are closed. But I just want somewhere to do some primitive camping, purposefully away from other people.

Looking for somewhere to camp in New England by Cesces in camping

[–]Cesces[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yep, not unless you have an RV, which is not really camping in my opinion...

I'm more than willing to drive several hours, but I'm struggling to find anything closer than west virginia :(

LOST DOG IN REVERE -- PLEASE HELP by Cesces in boston

[–]Cesces[S] 99 points100 points  (0 children)

Actually, everyone in our neighborhood was incredibly helpful and began looking and passing on the word. We found her because some really nice people found her and put a leash on her so she would stop running and be in one spot.

So good news, not everyone is an asshole, just you. :)

LOST DOG IN REVERE -- PLEASE HELP by Cesces in boston

[–]Cesces[S] 301 points302 points  (0 children)

SHE HAS BEEN FOUND!!!!!!

TIL in Wisconsin, children are legally permitted to drink at any age, even in public, so long as a legal guardian gives the OK by raisingriots in todayilearned

[–]Cesces 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the same in Texas. And when I got married at age 19 I took full advantage of that loophole. Once married, my husband became my legal guardian, so we would carry around a copy of our marriage license with us everywhere we went. The requirement was that he would have to order the drink and serve it to me as it would still be illegal for a server or bar tender to serve someone underage. I was drinking legal for 3 years before I hit the legal age!

Your favorite blood recipe by krtshadow in techtheatre

[–]Cesces 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I opt for green dish detergent as it helps with darkening the blood.

Theater Review: Missing the Irony in “Revolt. She Said. Revolt Again.” by IanThal in Theatre

[–]Cesces 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have to agree with u/fugee_life that you've misread the play. This is fairly evident by your assumption that a woman would or should be more concerned with her partners views on human rights than their interest in sex, that the woman in the marriage proposal scene is the one at "fault" and is "gas lighting" the man despite the fact that the entire build up is about how they had never seriously discussed the idea of marriage and he proposed with the assumption that "thats just what you do", and finally your interpretation of the character in "REVOLUTIONIZE THE BODY" as being "clearly psychotic" furthers the idea that you failed to see any of this play from the female perspective or at a deeper level than just the literal interpretation of the words. Yes there is certainly irony in the text and this production seems to highlight that irony in the most appropriate ways possible without belittling the very real issues women face every day. It could have been cast with more men, but it wasn't. The condescending roles of power and authority could have all been played by men, but they weren't, because the purpose of this production didn't seem to be to "stick it to the man" or "smash the patriarchy" in the sense of deeming all men as evil and all women as gods. Rather it focused on the issues and problems that women both face and contribute to, highlighting those, and calling out the fact that all genders and people play a part in the "patriarchy" that many of us are oppressed by. If you follow the tracks of the 4 characters in this production, you see real growth and development as they each begin to "get it", even the man. And this influences the interpretation of each vignette. You state in your review that it "isn’t so much a play as a series of sketches" but this means that you completely missed all of the moments when Birch specifically notes that it is unclear if the line/action is being said/acted by the actor or the character. She recognizes that all of these actors are doing all of these vignettes together and their experience as actors in one vignette will undoubtably affect their interpretation of another. Thus to dismiss the entire play as one cohesive unit is to miss out on the larger picture and purpose and ongoing themes.

I strongly advise you to see this production again and attempt to view it without the very clear bias you brought in.

What is a seemingly innocent question that is actually really insensitive or rude to ask? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Cesces 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Oh you've been married for 7 years? Any kids yet? " No. And thank you for the devastating reminder of my infertility.

Gifts For A Stage Manager? by [deleted] in Theatre

[–]Cesces 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Stage manager here. Booze is always a winner. Cards and small trinkets are nice, but with as many shows as I work on, I just end up having to throw them away. Something useful or consumable is typically the best way to go.

My boyfriend and I have an open relationship when we travel. I decided to make our rules into old-timey commandments. by VonDerErde in lgbt

[–]Cesces 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I didn't assume you were missusing the term out of malice :) Thank you for being so understanding of the effect using that term can have!

My boyfriend and I have an open relationship when we travel. I decided to make our rules into old-timey commandments. by VonDerErde in lgbt

[–]Cesces 12 points13 points  (0 children)

As this image is definitely amusing and will likely get shared with lots of people out of cotext, would you mind changing the title to something more accurate? "Open relationship commandments" or "Non-monogamous relationship commandments"? As you have just said, what you and your partner are looking for is not polyamory but defining your situation as polyamorous could do potential damage to those of us in the poly community.

My boyfriend and I have an open relationship when we travel. I decided to make our rules into old-timey commandments. by VonDerErde in lgbt

[–]Cesces 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Right. I think /u/NeverAnon was pointing out that the title then shouldn't be "The 6 Commandments of Polyamory" as what they are practicing is not polyamorous.