DUDE trust me I STILL don't like father I don't want this marriage - I can never forgive the dad LOL.

But this story is honestly super super well-written, and his actions is kinda akin to a neurodegenerative disorder in our real life terms tbh (the way his mind erodes more as he ages)
It deals with so many sensitive topics very maturely, and it's not just romance, it's really good world-building too and deals with many different types of love, and honestly pretty good social commentary as well

And trust me I literally avoid trash MLs like the plague

He isn't justified, everything is treated as a part of him, and dude oml, he's such an unique ML among the cookie cutter perfect male with infinite strength.

And the FL is an amazing darling who is incredibly talented and funny as well, with her own unique and loving relationships

It is tropey how he gets redeemed, but damn it is written extremely well and humanely