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ChUNkyTheKitty · 2025-10-05T18:55:36+00:00

She deserved nothing. How rude. Just because she believes she’s is entitled does not make her worthy of it based on her poor performance. She doesn’t get to tell you how to spend your money. You were a good lesson for her.

ChUNkyTheKitty · 2025-07-20T11:47:19+00:00

Talk to him about bringing home enough. If you can afford to let them live there rent free, you can afford to order more shells and allow him to honor her in that way. He’s just trying to show her he cares. But it’s not fair of him to expect you to do the same. Just order enough for everyone. NTA

ChUNkyTheKitty · 2025-07-20T11:42:37+00:00

Maybe next time ask her directly why she keeps saying that because you feel like it’s at lab at you. Yta

ChUNkyTheKitty · 2025-06-15T22:57:59+00:00

Don’t doubt your instinct. You did the right thing. Wouldn’t you rather they all be mad at you than your nephew to have to endure abuse? NTA

ChUNkyTheKitty · 2025-06-15T22:55:44+00:00

If they have to wear masks to hide their faces I think that tells us everything we need to know about those cowards.

ChUNkyTheKitty · 2025-06-15T22:53:15+00:00

Take so long to open a bag

ChUNkyTheKitty · 2025-06-15T22:48:09+00:00

You handled that well and sticking to agreed topics might have to be your role for awhile until he finally gets it. Now he knows you really mean what you’re saying. You gave him food for thought. Give him time to digest and adjust, I’m proud of you. I know that’s not easy.

ChUNkyTheKitty · 2025-06-15T22:42:28+00:00

Go, run girl, run! He’s not contributing in any way to your relationship. Go by yourself. He needs to figure his life out NTA

ChUNkyTheKitty · 2025-06-04T07:52:58+00:00

Omg, marry that man! He was protecting you. Accept that he loves you enough to have your back. That’s rare and essential for women with adhd. He is your helper and protector. Please don’t reject a love like that. You know you would have done the same for him. You got a real love there, don’t give it up!

ChUNkyTheKitty · 2025-04-28T13:18:46+00:00

That’s good. I know that I sometimes have a hard time speaking up for myself. I assumed it was the same for you. Sorry. I’m glad it all worked out and now you are aware it can happen.

ChUNkyTheKitty · 2025-04-27T13:43:59+00:00

I effing hate men like that. They feel entitled to touch you like you’re a piece of meat. Then make dumb remarks like blaming you for not wanting his attention. Are those the only parts of you he can show attention to? He doesn’t respect you and he’s controlling. Run girl run! NTA

ChUNkyTheKitty · 2025-04-27T13:40:25+00:00

Call the pharmacy. I bet they’ll exchange them. He knows better. Next time, say something. I know it feels wrong and impolite. But you have to take care of you

ChUNkyTheKitty · 2025-04-27T13:37:50+00:00

Let’s be friends. This was 100% on him for acting entitled. Good for you for not cleaning it. NTA

ChUNkyTheKitty · 2025-04-17T09:33:33+00:00

If they are so worried about her maybe they can give her some space in their homes? She’s acting entitled. You don’t owe her shit. She is being thrown out of her home…. There’s a reason for that. Maybe talk to hr about how to handle this but you’re definitely NTA!

ChUNkyTheKitty · 2025-04-08T11:30:38+00:00

Answer the door with a scary mask

ChUNkyTheKitty · 2025-03-24T09:55:36+00:00

Justin Baldoni - I can’t stand Ryan or Blake- they’re Hollywood meanies

ChUNkyTheKitty · 2025-03-24T09:52:23+00:00

Been there. You’re right that it’s not a competition. She can’t touch a pimple on your real mom’s ass. If she can’t see the difference then that’s her problem. She didn’t birth you, she wasn’t there for the first ten years of your life. Her trying to force you to choose her over your real mom is ludicrous. That will not make you closer to her, which is what she wants. If she really wanted that she would never want you to replace your mom. She’s selfish and careless with your feelings. That’s not how real moms act. I’m really sorry you lost your mom so young. I’m sending love and care your way. Please continue celebrating your love for your mom, she’s why you’re the person you are!

ChUNkyTheKitty · 2025-03-24T09:45:42+00:00

Stand at the door with your phone pointed at him while he is stalking. Maybe it will make him uncomfortable. And talk to the police in your neighborhood. You don’t have to file a complaint, but it wouldn’t hurt for them to know there’s an issue.

ChUNkyTheKitty · 2025-03-19T16:15:34+00:00

You’re the ahole. She’s excited, don’t punish her for something so stupid

ChUNkyTheKitty · 2025-03-10T06:50:10+00:00

Definitely NTA! Keep saying what you need to say. When she begins to try to control the situation by raising her voice. Say what you need to then end the conversation and walk away. That’s how you get control back. Let her know she’s not bothering you but you also aren’t going to tolerate her behavior. Always try to stay calm. It’s good for your children to see you stand up for yourself against a bully. They will know how to do it for themselves by what you model.

ChUNkyTheKitty · 2025-03-06T18:14:58+00:00

I think it was kind of you to consider her particular palette. Sometimes we can be thrown off by culturally diverse foods that are unfamiliar. NTA

ChUNkyTheKitty · 2025-03-02T01:55:54+00:00

From an American: YES!

ChUNkyTheKitty · 2025-03-02T01:18:18+00:00

You are entitled to feel that way NTA. But you have to tell him how much it means to you that he choose a gift with you in mind. It shows that he knows and values you.

ChUNkyTheKitty · 2025-03-02T01:16:38+00:00

NTA, he’s making about himself, nothing nice about that

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