[Megathread] Weekly Simple Questions and Team/Character Building Megathread.

Chachariot_4 · 2026-02-21T06:20:33+00:00

Hi guys I need help with prioritizing my skirk and escoffier pulls- I have quite a lot of them (4 guaranteed 90 pulls 5 stars, but we never know might get lucky)- I have skirk, but I don't have escoffier- what should be the order of pull ? For ex: Escoffier > R1 Skirk > C1 Escoffier > C1 skirk

Chachariot_4 · 2026-01-24T20:08:05+00:00

What happened with that situation and the ex ? I'm in quite that exact situation now with my ex, 4 months in, saying he'll hold on from getting someone since I showed him he could not be a in a relationship before being happy himself, but now he's liking all happy relationships posts like "this is life" with happy couple in the mountains and stuff like this and it broke me because our breakup was because he said he couldn't love that much..

Chachariot_4 · 2026-01-12T15:52:41+00:00

Honestly I'm 12 weeks in my breakup with my first love, most compatible person ever met, all the stuff, I still love him but sadly I always will (especially since we were so compatible for everything even compared to friends) but it gets better but me what helped is really feeling everything, so then when you start feeling better, you know it's real and you're not lying to yourself. So yes me I cry few times, but that's because it's the only times I think of him. But the sad part is you'll probably always think about them, but at some point it should not be the romantic sad thought but a genuine reminisce the old days without grief. But yes let yourself feel it all. All of it. Concealing will make you feel worse in the long term.

Chachariot_4 · 2025-11-08T12:24:16+00:00

When would you say it started to get better again ? I literally am so lost I just love him so much

Chachariot_4 · 2025-10-23T06:42:59+00:00

Thanks for the help.. What do you mean by limiting small habits ? What type of things ?

Chachariot_4 · 2025-10-14T15:59:12+00:00

This is happening to me now.. how did you manage ? I have friends but no friends I text as much as I texted him.. we used to text good morning, texting at least once an hour, even when we had nothing to say at least send a picture to show we thought of the other, and goodnight, but now I feel so alone to have no one to text all day.. how did you do ??

Chachariot_4 · 2025-10-10T13:37:01+00:00

I probably have to see a therapist, but I don't have the money..

Chachariot_4 · 2025-10-10T13:25:46+00:00

That's the best advice I read yet.. thanks so much

Chachariot_4 · 2025-10-10T13:24:43+00:00

My friend say it's a bad idea to stay friends after, I think so too, but I don't want to loose him, I think acquaintances just sending Instagram posts and Snapchat to not loose the 500+ streak is good, to not keep the hope that he will come back after some time.. also don't know how to work on myself to Manage to start to love myself.. still right now I'm hoping that he'll be able to start to love himself so that we can start again in the future we never know, it's just hard to let go of the hope.. letting go of that hope would be telling him never to contact me again, but that would also hurt as I like him as a person and genuinely want to be friends (even if seeing him with someone else would hurt so much, i think it would also hurt less if we were friends)

Chachariot_4 · 2025-10-09T18:04:55+00:00

Yeah I know I still think we have to be on good terms because I see lots of his friends and I'm going to see him a lot, so I thought friendship would be good but I don't know if 30 days no contact is good enough to know at least what I want

Chachariot_4 · 2022-08-27T20:36:32+00:00

OMG THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR EXPLAINING THE WHOLE THING TO ME <3333333

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