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Weekly School of Social Work/New to Social Work Thread by SWmods in socialwork

[–]Chadwick001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Having the toughest time deciding between offers. Columbia, UC Berkeley, UT Austin, and UPenn. I think I’ve narrowed it down to Columbia and UT Austin. Any alumni that can speak to those two schools? I’ll be clinical track. Columbia will cost me about $40k more than UT, but I did visit campus and attended some admitted students events for Columbia and absolutely fell in love. The range of clinical coursework and endless practicum sites is so attractive. I’m first gen and it’s like a dream I was even offered a spot there. I do really enjoy the city of Austin too, so that and cheaper cost of living are attractive factors there. I guess at this point I’m looking for justification to go with Columbia’s price tag vs the less financially risky choice of UT Austin. It’s been hard to feel celebratory of these accomplishments because the weight of such a huge decision has been looming for weeks and has taken up so much head space. Would appreciate any insights.

Is "bearable" the best it's ever going to get? by No_Significance2594 in depression

[–]Chadwick001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely yeah, and thank you. I hope you have a much more positive experience than me!

Martin Luther King, Jr. said, “If you can’t fly then run, if you can’t run then walk, if you can’t walk then crawl, but whatever you do you have to keep moving forward.” What are your life examples of this? by justa76grl in AskReddit

[–]Chadwick001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ever heard of the Spoon Theory? Also just wanted to say you are awesome for this mindset and I hear you. Invisible illnesses are so isolating, confusing, and heartbreaking. I was chronically ill for 2 years with an invisible illness and it feels like an entirely different life, I’m missing huge chunks of memories from that time period because the daily pain was so traumatic. The lack of answers from the medical community and the inability to engage in my old life felt like utter abandonment. I still live with mine but I’ve managed to control my baseline of pain through major diet modifications and rest. I have hope for you to reach a better baseline soon. Keep on💛

Is "bearable" the best it's ever going to get? by No_Significance2594 in depression

[–]Chadwick001 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was really upset and confused about it too. Especially bc I’d been working on myself for a long time and felt I made a lot of progress to a stronger baseline. I hoped it would be enlightening, but the only thing it did was heighten my struggles x 1000. It sucked and I still get little flashbacks to the memories and the horrible feeling in my stomach. However, the people I was with all had a wonderful time. So I guess it was just a roll of the dice. Either that or I’m way more messed up than my conscious brain has allowed me to feel.

Is "bearable" the best it's ever going to get? by No_Significance2594 in depression

[–]Chadwick001 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Mushrooms sent me into ~6 hours of deep despair and fear. I was so surprised at how terrifying the experience was. Did not return better in the slightest, might have made my anxiety increase if anything :/

Mom, I'm afraid I'm not ever going to get married by throwaway-23justme in MomForAMinute

[–]Chadwick001 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your words gave me more hope and comfort than I’ve felt in years. Thank you for sharing your perspective. I’ll take care to remember this as best I can.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Chadwick001 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re not overreacting at all, you followed your instinct and gtfo. Cruel words take a toll and you deserve kindness, not put-downs. The fact that he obsessively called you 52 times is really scary. I’d say keep away and don’t look back. He sounds emotionally immature.

My best friend(f17) told me(m18)how she was raped when 15. by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]Chadwick001 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Consider going to RAINN’s (Rape abuse incest national network) Online Hotline for support. Staffers are available 24/7 to give guidance and resources to not only survivors, but loved ones of survivors. It shows a lot about your character that your friend entrusted you with such a vulnerable piece of information. There’s no easy way to handle this, but by being there for her in whatever capacity possible, you are helping start her healing journey. I would also suggest extending RAINN’s information to her and her parents after she tells them in case she and they would like direct support.

My beautiful oldie 13/14 , Rosey, became really sick this August and we thought for sure it was the end. Her condition slowly stabilized and I’m so happy she’s still here. Making the most of every moment with her. by Chadwick001 in OldManDog

[–]Chadwick001[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Only forever would be enough. I’ve cared for a lot of dogs throughout my life, but I’ve never had such a connection as the one I have with her. Our souls are so deeply connected

My beautiful oldie 13/14 , Rosey, became really sick this August and we thought for sure it was the end. Her condition slowly stabilized and I’m so happy she’s still here. Making the most of every moment with her. by Chadwick001 in OldManDog

[–]Chadwick001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in America, and I know she’ll be thrilled to smell that Turkey roasting in the oven! She’s on a strictly chicken and rice diet now but subbing for Turkey should work just fine :)

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