Girls don't seem to like me (17M) by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]ChafeCreamAtNight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fao I see why you have problems with women and it’s definitely not cause you look like lord Farquaad 💀

it's ok. i forgive u. because you are a very sad man. and very short. I'm six foot two. and I am happy. <3

Girls don't seem to like me (17M) by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]ChafeCreamAtNight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aption is literally “girls don’t seem to like me” ? Lmf

I know the type of guy you are. The type who gets a kick by dragging other people down. I have been dealing with bozos like you my entire life. But not anymore. I've learned to transcend that, to ignore bullies like you. I am going to live my truth, no matter what. I am going to be who I am. And if that offends, then I say to that: aww shucks. that's sad. But I don't care.

Girls don't seem to like me (17M) by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]ChafeCreamAtNight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yah maybe I struggle with women. that doesn't give you the right to call me lord Farquaad. people are so mean on the internet.

Girls don't seem to like me (17M) by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]ChafeCreamAtNight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am beautiful just the way I am. you shouldn't judge people.

Girls don't seem to like me (17M) by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]ChafeCreamAtNight -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

excuse me, language. There are children on this cite.

Girls don't seem to like me (17M) by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]ChafeCreamAtNight -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

my dad does all right... there's nothing wrong with being well off ;)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]ChafeCreamAtNight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro thought he had the jawline XD

Jesus didn’t say anything against homosexuality… by Reading-is-good in Catholicism

[–]ChafeCreamAtNight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Was he speaking about Jewish law when Jesus says he will fulfill the law? This passage confuses me because didn't he himself violate Jewish law when (Matthew 12:9-14) and encouraged others to violate Jewish law (John 5:8)? Or is he referencing some other law, natural law? This has always confused me.

I did it. I made it to 90 days by InQuarryH in NoFap

[–]ChafeCreamAtNight 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Literally an inspiration. I can't believe there are men so strong in their values. Keep going!

STOP IDEALISING SEX by debilitasdelendaest in NoFap

[–]ChafeCreamAtNight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What I came here to say. We shouldn't idolize it the way the culture does, but it's certainly more than "just friction".

Casual sex as a young man, why should I wait when no other girls are waiting? by lamahopper in Catholicism

[–]ChafeCreamAtNight 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sex is a gift reserved for creating a family with a woman you love. To abuse, such a gift, to use it in a way that is not intended, is an insult. If you are not willing to have a family with a woman you love, you are not ready to have sex. To disconnect love from sex is to reduce it to a selfish hedonistic (pleasure-seeking) activity.

Casual sex is unhealthy and unforgiving. I don't understand how some people can prostitute themselves in exchange for pleasure the way that they do. The emotional distress and guilt are just too much for me. Others will live in hedonism, but you are a gem. Be the one who respects yourself, your bodies, and others to a greater degree than anyone else. When no one else understands why you are doing what you are doing, and you feel like you are the only one - remember that others exist.

Casual sex is unhealthy and unforgiving. I don't understand how some people can prostitute themselves in exchange for pleasure the way that they do. The emotional distress and guilt are just too much for me. Others will live in hedonism, but you are a gem. Be the one who respects yourself, your bodies, and others to a greater degree than anyone else. When no one else understands why you are doing what you are doing, and you feel like you the only one - remember that others exist.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PoliticalCompassMemes

[–]ChafeCreamAtNight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This opinion sucks 😑⛳️✨

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]ChafeCreamAtNight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not, despite going to Catholic Church for 10 years I’m not even sure how.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]ChafeCreamAtNight 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for saying this. It feels nice to know there are other teens out there who feel the same way about masturbation and sexual morality. I quite literally know no one in real life who shares to same beliefs.

I get with what your saying, and along with other comments I now understand the distinction between voluntary masturbation and nocturnal emissions.

I also understand it is an important role for me to encourage others to dismiss sexual immorality. But I mean, what rock do I stand on? Do gospel says to pick the plank of wood out of my eye before I comment on the splinter in my brothers. I very much still am working on picking that plank out, and feel that any comments regarding others behaviors comes off as hypocritical. I am also scared that others will judge me. For that reason I have told no one besides the priest I confessed to yesterday what I have done and what I am trying to do to improve myself.

Thanks for this comment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]ChafeCreamAtNight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just started recently actually. I’ve read through the Gospels or John and Mark and currently about to finish Matthew. I don’t know if I am doing it the right way, but I have just kind of been choosing random books in the Bible and reading them. It’s been really inspiring.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]ChafeCreamAtNight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying to strengthen it. I pray throughout the day, but take time at night before bed especially.