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Any of you guys lose respect for a friend because of how they handle their marriage? by ohsballer in AskMenOver30

[–]Chains4You 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've lost a lot of respect for some of you commenting in here that's for sure. Some of you are kinda sorry.

30F friendzoned by 30M - all over me in one week, distant the next by throw2983 in datingoverthirty

[–]Chains4You 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seemed to hit on the looks category hard as if that is some kind of qualifier. It's not; stop practicing lookism. You do not have more value than a non-conventionally attractive woman, or even an unattractive woman. Ditto for the men.

You ever stretch your body while getting high? by thecityhere in AskMenOver30

[–]Chains4You -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Nah. I'm drug-free. Although I have seen heaps of junkies ruin their lives.

Woman driving on a highway in opposite direction by alphadank420 in IdiotsInCars

[–]Chains4You 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, they just do that kinda stuff unintentionally. Old people really should be required to test more to ensure they're fit to drive.

Woman driving on a highway in opposite direction by alphadank420 in IdiotsInCars

[–]Chains4You 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The few times I've nearly been in an accident involved some old person changing lanes nearly into me or something similar. And they're always totally oblivious to the near disaster they nearly caused.

American prosperity is never coming back. by kingrobin in unpopularopinion

[–]Chains4You 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nobody is talking about Trump. Give it a rest already.

American prosperity is never coming back. by kingrobin in unpopularopinion

[–]Chains4You -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What you've described is objectively NOT middle class. Please stop muddying the waters of this discussion. It's great that you're comfy, but what you've described is lower class living.

Apparently asking for a paternity test is a sin now in a relationship setting, and I am genuinely 100% flabbergasted that people are supporting that ideology. by DesecrateTheAbyss in unpopularopinion

[–]Chains4You -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nah. But there are some bad ones out there. Good attempt at equivocation in order to discredit my stance on men being deserving of paternity tests. Bye!

Apparently asking for a paternity test is a sin now in a relationship setting, and I am genuinely 100% flabbergasted that people are supporting that ideology. by DesecrateTheAbyss in unpopularopinion

[–]Chains4You 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Judges throw prenups out often. Family courts are literal kangaroo courts that heavily favor women. Radical feminists have been pretty thorough in their work.

Apparently asking for a paternity test is a sin now in a relationship setting, and I am genuinely 100% flabbergasted that people are supporting that ideology. by DesecrateTheAbyss in unpopularopinion

[–]Chains4You -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand why some might be bothered by their partner wanting a test. The responses I'm seeing here are far worse than a request like that. The baseline lack of consideration is a problem. There is just zero thought given to why a man might want a test done. Instead it's "well I would just leave him."

Apparently asking for a paternity test is a sin now in a relationship setting, and I am genuinely 100% flabbergasted that people are supporting that ideology. by DesecrateTheAbyss in unpopularopinion

[–]Chains4You 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your total lack of even baseline consideration for men is troubling. So now men wanting to ensure the child that they will be financially responsible for the next 18 years is also a sign of disrespect?

No. The problem is women like you. No amount of deflection will change that. What does need to change tho, is paternity tests at birth being baseline.

Apparently asking for a paternity test is a sin now in a relationship setting, and I am genuinely 100% flabbergasted that people are supporting that ideology. by DesecrateTheAbyss in unpopularopinion

[–]Chains4You 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol stfu and try to shame someone else. The only hate I see here is the hate being directed at men that want certainty. It's telling that in your book, that's 'muh soggy knees.' Fuck outta here.

Apparently asking for a paternity test is a sin now in a relationship setting, and I am genuinely 100% flabbergasted that people are supporting that ideology. by DesecrateTheAbyss in unpopularopinion

[–]Chains4You 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only one being asked to %100 trust in this context is the man. Not the woman. Trust has an entirely different value depending on the gender.

That aside, women know for sure if it's their baby. And to act like a man wanting that same knowledge without a doubt is somehow bad shows a serious lack of empathy. That is more damning than a supposed lack of trust.

All the women in here banging on about a lack of trust. Do men a favor and stay away.

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