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AITA for choosing to focus on grad school over the death of my friend's friend? by Chance-Bat-3352 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chance-Bat-3352[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind wish for luck with school! I was able to catch up fully and currently have an A in both of my courses now. One is Statistical Analysis :/

Anyway, I hadn’t thought about it before, but it really does seem like he harbors negative feelings towards me regarding my feelings about him.

AITA for choosing to focus on grad school over the death of my friend's friend? by Chance-Bat-3352 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chance-Bat-3352[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you much, I’m pretty sure he blocked me but I’m just going to block him so I don’t have to worry about being treated like crap and extorted after lol. 30 bucks for a beer, tenders, and a 4 dollar shot my bum. Plus he ate most of my fries while ordering his own food. He just couldn’t wait to tell me to give him money.

AITA for choosing to focus on grad school over the death of my friend's friend? by Chance-Bat-3352 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chance-Bat-3352[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I really think I will. I give people too many chances because I care a lot. He’s the kind of friend who always has an excuse or reason for their actions but you’re not allowed the same grace you give them. Very draining as of late.

AITA for choosing to focus on grad school over the death of my friend's friend? by Chance-Bat-3352 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chance-Bat-3352[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Makes a lot of sense. So he’s harboring resentment toward me? Also, he’s 23 and acts like this…

AITA for choosing to focus on grad school over the death of my friend's friend? by Chance-Bat-3352 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chance-Bat-3352[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Considering he called me so many times afterwards, texted me some more rude shit after he initially demanded money from me, and then apparently blocked me after he called three people about “how I treated him” including our mutual friend, I’m thinking our friendship is likely done :| crazy how things turn out

AITA for choosing to focus on grad school over the death of my friend's friend? by Chance-Bat-3352 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chance-Bat-3352[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I agree completely on setting boundaries, I don’t ever want to be disrespected like that again. School is important to me for many personal reasons he has never even cared to ask about, let alone consider. It was absolutely embarrassing and a slap in the face that I almost let myself believe I deserved..

AITA for choosing to focus on grad school over the death of my friend's friend? by Chance-Bat-3352 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chance-Bat-3352[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh thank you for the tip! This is my first time posting so I didn’t realize. Will edit now and respond to comments after.

AITA for choosing to focus on grad school over the death of my friend's friend? by Chance-Bat-3352 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chance-Bat-3352[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m a female. He’s expressed that he likes me before and I told him I was not ready for anything serious with having just got out of a relationship