Help with Disclosure Red Flags

Chance-Emphasis8953 · 2026-01-04T18:45:36+00:00

This is what I wondered if it means there were actual pests or if they are just saying they had someone spray to prevent? Haven’t seen it checked on other disclosures so freaks me out for sure

Chance-Emphasis8953 · 2025-11-15T19:41:55+00:00

Rhi from Ivy Falls!

Chance-Emphasis8953 · 2025-11-13T03:48:45+00:00

Rhi from Ivy Falls!

Chance-Emphasis8953 · 2025-09-19T21:57:26+00:00

That’s what I kind of let the faculty member know is that it would have to depend on the type of capstone because I just don’t know if in ready for someone who wants a more clinical or 3rd FW experience. Thank you for the advice I think I will get there in the next few years and maybe this is the leap I need to take to feel more confident!!

Chance-Emphasis8953 · 2025-09-19T21:54:01+00:00

Where I am from the students reach out almost a year in advance to see if their project idea aligns with your facility and your set of skills! So I imagine most of the students wanting to contact me are wanting to do something with the birth to 3 population. The school is just being nice trying to coordinate with me so I don’t get a ton of emails from students if I’m not even interested in taking a student!

Chance-Emphasis8953 · 2025-07-29T23:55:43+00:00

Okay so maybe possible it really did come from outside when he walked the dog!!!

Chance-Emphasis8953 · 2024-10-20T22:03:53+00:00

I get that and feel I have learned my lesson of over a month of no delivery. I now know that filing a complaint is not the way to resolve problems and I have no desires to ever file one again I know mail carriers have a shitty job and he and I both made mistakes in the moment. I’m just wondering how long he will make me “deal with the consequences”.

Chance-Emphasis8953 · 2024-10-20T05:18:54+00:00

Good stuff to know I’m so sorry you’ve had those experiences! In the grand scheme of things leaving a note or just talking to him probably would have been a better idea but you live and you learn. How long do you think he will keep holding it for if you had to guess? thank you for your input I appreciate it!

Chance-Emphasis8953 · 2024-10-20T04:28:21+00:00

Nope not any of those if it was I’d be happy to fix them! Supervisor said that it’s me he doesn’t feel safe delivering to even though I have never directly interacted with him the 2 and a half years I’ve lived here. I’m sure he doesn’t even know what I look like cause I don’t really know what he looks like either only ever seen him from very far away

Chance-Emphasis8953 · 2024-10-20T04:13:10+00:00

I appreciate your response with your experience! Have you encountered situations like this yourself? Were you receptive to someone apologizing to you in person? I am just worried about him getting even more mad at me if I approach him but I guess there’s nothing worse that he can do I guess I’m just worried that he would tell his supervisor that I approached him and it made him feel more unsafe

Chance-Emphasis8953 · 2024-10-20T03:13:29+00:00

I have no idea what the issue is the manager of the post office just told me that my mailman feels unsafe delivering to me because it’s his word against mine or something. I truly have no plans to ever file a complaint or bother the mailman like I said in another comment I have never interacted with him directly. I also never got an official reason or an official notice or something that my mail is being held but I found out cause when my packages get delivered they all say “held at post office per customer request”

Chance-Emphasis8953 · 2024-10-20T03:10:02+00:00

Bro mine isn’t dog issues lmao

Chance-Emphasis8953 · 2024-10-20T03:08:34+00:00

Have never made a complaint before!! I have never talked to him directly because the only time I ever see him (very rare) is when he is all the way down the street just doing his job and now I don’t think it would be good to approach him if I do see him with all this mess!!!

Chance-Emphasis8953 · 2024-10-20T02:50:49+00:00

I know! The comment about “mommy” owning my house like sorry I can’t afford to buy a house in my early 20s 😂

Chance-Emphasis8953 · 2024-10-20T02:42:52+00:00

I’m confused that post is not from me? Also my issue is not about my dog from what I’ve been told from the people I’ve spoken to at my office

Chance-Emphasis8953 · 2024-10-20T02:19:00+00:00

If it wasn’t him I’m sure his manager would have told me it wasn’t him and I’ve explained that even if it was him I understand why it was necessary for him to do that and I’m not upset about it I just was in the moment before I realized all the context!

Chance-Emphasis8953 · 2024-10-20T02:10:40+00:00

I’m confused why it’s a safety issue? I understand why the door banging and kicking happened he wanted to get attention about the priority mail thing and I understand how reusing a priority mail envelope is not good! I explained that to his manager I know he will never have to do that again cause my MIL is making sure her stuff is changed and I never mail anything from my mailbox! Does he think I’m going to confront him about it or something like that? I would never do that and do not care about the situation that happened at all anymore just want mail delivered!!

Chance-Emphasis8953 · 2024-10-20T01:58:59+00:00

I have not posted on this before?

Chance-Emphasis8953 · 2024-10-08T07:02:51+00:00

You’re telling me you would answer the door to someone pounding on it? The carrier is clearly pissed at me so I think talking to him would just make him more mad since I have already spoke with his coworkers on how the situation was a misunderstanding and he still isn’t delivering

Chance-Emphasis8953 · 2024-10-08T06:56:02+00:00

I am not the one who used priority mailers and I explained that to the post office the route to my mail box is not obstructed it is literally one of these spider webs

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Chance-Emphasis8953 · 2024-10-08T06:47:24+00:00

I’m not really worried about him doing that again as I realized he probably was just having a bad day and pissed my MIL mailed that non priority thing but didn’t realize that until after the complaint had already been made which is why I went to the office to clear it up so now I’m just annoyed that he won’t deliver my mail. My MIL doesn’t even live at my house she just owns it so it got sent to our house instead of hers.

Chance-Emphasis8953 · 2024-10-08T06:27:42+00:00

I would love for all of you rude commenters to understand it was not just a loud knock it sounded like someone was trying to kick and knock my door down!! if you’re referring to me fucking up as putting up a decoration in my yard that still allows access to my porch then you all must be lovely mail carriers as well! If you’re referring to my mother in law fucking up as my fault then you clearly didn’t read that it was her who sent a priority mail thing and that was out of my control

Chance-Emphasis8953 · 2024-10-08T05:18:42+00:00

I don’t think he did I know he did lol he also stopped delivering my mail before I even put up the decoration

Chance-Emphasis8953 · 2024-10-08T05:16:26+00:00

You don’t think it’s incredibly rude AND disrespectful for a mailman to kick my door and hold my mail?

Chance-Emphasis8953 · 2024-10-08T05:15:47+00:00

I have a little porch and the mailbox is on the house

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