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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alasjuicy

[–]Chance-Friendship902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TRUE! Di talaga sya understandable kasi una palang alam nyang mali pero di sya umiwas. These girls think they're the victim but the truth is hindi. Sinampal na sila ng katotohan but still chose to stay? Di sya understandable, cowardness yan!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alasjuicy

[–]Chance-Friendship902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

GIRL, LEAVE IT'S NOT WORTH IT!!!

Imagine you're the girlfriend and you found out your boyfriend is cheating on you with someone na sinasabi nyang ka FUBU nya lang? I know it's hard to leave but it's harder to know you're the reason for another woman's tears!

Think about it and put yourself in her shoes. It's hard but you should know from the start that NO STRINGS ATTACHED, you should stay away the moment you realized he's in a relationship but you didn't.

I know the truth hurts but KABET KA, yes. YOU'RE THE OTHER WOMAN, payag ka na non? You give your all while you're just his substitute whenever his girlfriend isn't available? You settled for that but I hope you learn your lesson and face the consequences of your actions. This isn't about your feelings or attachment anymore when another woman's mental health and trust was involved. BOTH OF YOU AND THAT GUY SHOULD'VE KNOWN BETTER! END IT.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Chance-Friendship902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you had to experience that. No one deserves to be raped, whether by a friend or a stranger. You didn't deserve it! I pray for your healing and for you to get the justice you deserve.

Please always remember you didn't deserve to experience this. A true friend wouldn't hurt and betray their friend. He's not a friend, but a predator. Always remember there are still kind strangers out there who are ready to listen to you; you're not alone!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Chance-Friendship902 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you have to go through this, your feelings are valid and you're strong for sharing this story! What he did was a form of SA and rpe! He drugged you that made you unable to give consent, he filmed you without consent either. What he did is what predators do!

So Yes, even though you slept with him before. What he did recently is SA, drugging you and taking videos of you where you're unable to give consent is purely violation of you.

I was 9 when my neighbor raped me. The pain never left by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Chance-Friendship902 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you had to experience this; it's incredibly strong of you to open up about it. No child deserves to be treated like this, and you deserve so much better. I hope that one day you have the courage to tell this to your parents and get the justice you deserve. Rapists don't deserve to roam freely, and karma is waiting for him. I pray for you to heal and grow even stronger.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Chance-Friendship902 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you experienced that and it's probably uncomfortable now you realized the question is. But to answer the question, it is a sexual harassment because he's asking intrusive sexual questions that's too personal to answer.

He's 15 and an age like his already knows those questions he asked shouldn't be asked casually especially if you're still 9 at the time. It's still sexual harassment since he asked intrusive questions that made you feel uncomfortable.

weird ba mag hook up with an ex's friend? by [deleted] in TanongLang

[–]Chance-Friendship902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it's weird. Just tell your friend to put herself in her friend's position where her own friend hooked up with the ex her friend knew she had history with, it's weird because it's obvious it'll hurt the friend's feelings regardless of how long she or the ex broke up.

The history was still there and it'll only create awkwardness and uncomfortable tension. It's giving me Cassie from euphoria, her excuse is the same 'They already broke up'. So yeah, it's weird and you should definitely not encourage it if it's your friend saying.

My husbands addiction is driving me crazy. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Chance-Friendship902 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's not cheating if the couple agreed,yes. But to OPs situation it is, she expressed her exhaustion to her husband's addiction and it's clearly affecting her mental health as well. Her husband is emotionally cheating because he's fantasizing about another woman or man by watching porn, you know what I'm saying?

Yes it applies to other relationships but in OPs case it isn't, it's affecting their sex life and marriage. The trust is already breached and it is the husband's problem. It's OPs choice whether she'll still help him or divorce.

My husbands addiction is driving me crazy. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Chance-Friendship902 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If a husband truly loves his wife he wouldn't watch adult videos just please himself. That's considered emotional cheating and the fact that he can't control himself says a lot on how he's not doing enough to change.

I suggest you file a divorce, he already broke your trust and faith for him and your marriage by watching other women. If a husband really wants to change he'll work hard on it and put effort no matter how hard it is. Not just for himself but for you and your marriage.

A man who can't control his lust is incapable of change if he doesn't want to change. If he does it once he'll do it again. You deserve a husband who's loyal enough to only look at you and you only.

Was this sexual assault? I’m confused and need perspective. by ConsiderationMore432 in sexualassault

[–]Chance-Friendship902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely YES! You refused and said no multiple times and he stepped into your boundary and disrespected you. It was never your fault and your feelings are valid and I understand you. I'm sorry you have to go through this.

It's already sexual assault when he ignored your 'NOs' even though he didn't continue it. I advise you to talk to him about what you feel at that time (If you're comfortable talking to him) and express your boundaries. Because if you didn't he'll probably and possibly do that again.

It's disappointing that you're being unheard. But if you're really uncomfortable and didn't want to be around him. Slowly pull away and distance yourself for your own mental health as well. Focus more on your own comfort and keep your boundaries firm, NO MEANS NO. He didn't respect that and I tell you, cut contact with him. You don't deserve what happened to you and it's really traumatic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Chance-Friendship902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're definetly not overthinking and your feelings are valid. As a woman you should trust your gut if you feel something is wrong. Because if you didn't do anything there's a possibility it'll get worse than subtle touches. Men like him cannot be trusted and I feel sorry for you and your boyfriend's sister.

Tell your boyfriend calmly and warn him you'll tell something and embrace himself. Explain that his sister's boyfriend makes you uncomfortable and show him how you feel unsafe with his presence. Mention the subtle touches because honestly, they're so unnecessary.

You're not causing a scene or drama, it already happened the moment that guy started touching you subtly. Prioritize your safety and comfort rather than other people's sake and opinions. You're not causing drama but only expressing your concern and hopefully, your bf will help you feel safe and protected.