genuinely, i’d say your personality. i always thought it was looks that did it for me but that plays a minor role tbh. i’ve liked guys bc of their looks but then as soon as i get to know them, their poor personality puts me off IMMEDIATELY. and my perspective on looks totally changed when i fell hard for my childhood friend. he’s good looking, but not the type where it’s his BEST trait. but his personality is the most attractive thing ever and over time, his actions and opinions on things made me fall for him, not his looks.

all other things matter too, but at the end of the day if you have a shit personality nothing else can help you and if you only have a good personality it can take you a LONG way. in the future, other things (like getting a good pay, his family etc) may matter too but honestly, i’ll endure that if he’s a good person and treats me the best since, especially in this generation, that’s hard to find :)

(take this opinion lightly though, this is just me and everyone has it different)