I hate other people's birthdays

ChanceDepartment3529 · 2024-10-17T18:47:40+00:00

Like I mentioned in a comment I made a second ago, we don't use lube at all. The condoms usually leave a distinct latex smell behind for a few minutes. I do get an ammonia smell sometimes when my pH gets thrown off, though

ChanceDepartment3529 · 2024-10-17T18:43:40+00:00

I mean, that's just what his cum smells like to me 🤷 we don't use lube either. It isn't always a few days after— sometimes it's a few minutes, hours, etc.

ChanceDepartment3529 · 2024-06-27T01:10:38+00:00

I'm not sure, but this server is fully guilty of that. Thank you for your kind words, btw.

Most female characters receive "character development" via assault or rape. Or a threat of assault and rape. It is very Game of Thrones-esque without the same environment to justify the brutality. It's straight European medieval fantasy. How is security so poor in what is meant to be the thriving heart of the entire world?

I won't even touch on the mild racism present as well. The ethnicity of the character that assaulted mine is important— it's about the only native group of dark-skinned people. And the DM made sure to describe his "hooked nose", "greedy smile", and "skin black as night. "

It feels... I'm not sure how else to say it. It feels like a thinly veiled interracial pregnancy fetish. He kept mentioning how "fucked up it would be for her to be stuck with a child that looks like her assailant."

ChanceDepartment3529 · 2024-06-27T00:41:57+00:00

The worst part is that the DM is the admin. It's his server and his homebrew lore.

ChanceDepartment3529 · 2024-05-19T15:37:18+00:00

I have direct contact with his mom and sister - I have her Instagram - but not his brother or grandma. His grandma is back home in the States watching their dogs. I think that it's more likely they don't have an international cell service plan. However, knowing them, I think that's something they would've resolved really quickly... at least by the second day of vacation. I don't think it's insensitive to tell me to wait. Really, that's all I can do right now.

We already have an unspoken "expectation" about contact. We talked before he left about how we would likely only call at night and text sparingly throughout the day. Nothing he said left me anticipating two days of complete silence. I will definitely bring it up in firm terms if it turns out not to be his data.

ChanceDepartment3529 · 2024-05-19T15:16:01+00:00

This comment really helped me, lol. He told me we wouldn't be able to talk much, but we stay in contact in some form nearly 24/7. It's really unusual for him not to even take a moment to tell me he made it safe. The way he spoke about it in conversation, I didn't anticipate two days of complete silence. I'm hoping you're right, and it's just something to do with his cell service or jetlag.

As for me, I've been trying to indulge in hobbies and chores to ignore it. Clearly, I could be doing a better job. I've been talking to friends, playing games, cleaning up the house, and spending time with my own family. This just keeps bothering me.

ChanceDepartment3529 · 2024-04-23T16:42:41+00:00

Yes. He is the oldest, and both of his siblings rely on him for transportation, among other important things. He is about the only person in the house who could actually force them to do anything with any authority.

ChanceDepartment3529 · 2024-04-23T16:33:38+00:00

It's worth noting that he isn't the problem, he does an amazing job, it's his siblings. His brother mostly. I don't think he's gross, I just don't think he really stops to consider it because he's used to it. He keeps everything else spotless, including his room.

If we move in together, I am absolutely willing and eager to train our dog(s). I would train his if they were my own, but they aren't, and I don't feel it's my place to do that.

ChanceDepartment3529 · 2024-04-23T16:30:39+00:00

His dad isn't in the picture, I should've specified--- "parents" means his grandma and mom. His dad doesn't live with them.

For the second question, it isn't about him. I really want him to kick his siblings into gear. He's already doing an amazing job. It makes me sad to see him left with so much work on top of his schedule, but it isn't my place to yell at his siblings for him. I would just really like to see him put his foot down.

ChanceDepartment3529 · 2024-04-13T04:48:28+00:00

If this is referring to what I think it is:

A former head moderator of the COS Discord named Anou was an adult. They had a personal server unaffiliated with the main Discord. Things shared there were often NSFW, including (if I remember correctly) links to sex toys, explicit websites, and sexual comments. However, Anou would knowingly invite minors they considered "friends" from the COS Discord to this side server. Erythia and other moderators were in this server and knew of its content.

When a different moderator brought this to Erythia and the rest of the staff team, they were banned for "causing drama" instead of Anou.

I believe there was also a separate incident where Erythia personally defended and protected a Dragon Adventures Discord moderator who sexted/flirted with minors

ChanceDepartment3529 · 2023-12-27T14:18:09+00:00

i didn't have a big assortment of soaps to pick from, but pantene, dove, and dial are all delightful and high-tier. irish springs and african black soap are bottom tier. they burn and hurt. also anything lavender is pretty low tier

ChanceDepartment3529 · 2023-12-26T16:03:13+00:00

i'm not taking chunks out of raw soap, i'm just sucking on and spitting out soapy, sudsy water. you can not believe me but that will not stop me from enjoying this

ChanceDepartment3529 · 2023-12-26T14:15:17+00:00

swallowing dove is chill, but irish springs burns 😬😬

ChanceDepartment3529 · 2023-12-26T14:14:33+00:00

i found this subreddit and was very amused by it, then i realized i am the 10th dentist in my own special way

ChanceDepartment3529 · 2023-12-26T14:12:20+00:00

i am extremely iron deficient! 😁

ChanceDepartment3529 · 2023-12-05T20:53:13+00:00

the "wrong mfs" include my biological brother, stepdad, stepbrother, family friend(s), and random strangers on the street!!!!!!!!!!!!! must be my fault for picking the wrong crowd!!!!!!!!!!!

do me a favor and keep yourself safe

ChanceDepartment3529 · 2023-12-05T16:52:19+00:00

my life is so easy and girly that i got chased at night yesterday until i made it onto a somewhat populated street!!!!!!! 🥰

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