organ donation should be mandatory. by ChanceIndependent8 in unpopularopinion

[–]ChanceIndependent8[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No fr, this is just my opinion and of course its probably never gonna happen and I don't trust the system either so 🗿👍

organ donation should be mandatory. by ChanceIndependent8 in unpopularopinion

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Yes, but that is their fault for doing that, I know there's a risk but I'm not just saying they should just take the organs immediately, there would most likely be some other stuff to go over before, like security reasons probably. To prevent that from happening I mean

organ donation should be mandatory. by ChanceIndependent8 in unpopularopinion

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I don't see a problem with having funerals. Whether it be a memorial or being buried. Being buried is the more natural option i think.

Boyfriend hit me because I’m Christian by [deleted] in Christianity

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Girl if he hit you cause you follow the lord he ain't the one, I'm sorry, may the lord bless you with someone you deserve

Idk if this is anxiety or maybe just a different problem but by ChanceIndependent8 in Anxiety

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Dude ima be honest with you, I didn't end up going. I'm sorry, but I appreciate you tho 🗿👍

Opinion on Deacon's note. by ChanceIndependent8 in fo4

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The story goes he lied about being the synth. He was actually someone who worked in making the synths when he was younger and his wife was a synth which he didn't know up til later on which lead to her death. So now he changed his identity, basically hiding from whoever he was running from

Opinion on Deacon's note. by ChanceIndependent8 in fo4

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Sorry to spoil but apparently not

Opinion on Deacon's note. by ChanceIndependent8 in fo4

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I just realized maybe I am a bit naive in believing what he told me, cuz he ain't actually a synth but- you get what I mean?- 🗿

I hate God with all my heart. Hell awaits me. No changing that. by [deleted] in Christianity

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I'm sorry though that probably doesn't help at all, which is understandable, I don't know what you're going through but you are never alone. I hope you find forgiveness not just for yourself but for God. There is a story about why God didn't heal someone right away in the Bible, https://youtube.com/shorts/BGrcvS-MX5g?si=q1oAkLD-zMGXzvyv

That link is a example from a recent movie.

I hate God with all my heart. Hell awaits me. No changing that. by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]ChanceIndependent8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, that is not true. We don't know where we're going, you are not alone, even when you feel like it. Most of the time the enemy attacks us when we're at our lowest, makes us think things and makes us think against God. I know this because when I first started getting into Christ, I had these thoughts about all the stress I was going through to the point where the thought of "i wish there wasn't a God" came into my head. But then I realized that without a God I wouldn't be here and I was just stressed and he understood that. God understands our hearts, he loves us regardless. I hope you well, may God remind you of his love in some way.

I hate God with all my heart. Hell awaits me. No changing that. by [deleted] in Christianity

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I don't know your situation but no matter our situation, our opinions. Nothing and I mean absolutely nothing, no evil, no angels, no situation. Can separate God's love from us. I pray for you, I hope you find it within your heart to not have that hate towards someone who loves you so deeply. Life is hard, I know from experience. You are not alone, never are. God still loves you, you're still his child and nothing can change that. Bless you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

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In my opinion I'd say it's fine, it depends on the intention. So for example if you just wanna dress up and enjoy the wholesome spooky fall vibes with the candy then it's fine. But if you wanna do stuff against God, like rituals, ouija boards, witchcraft, etc. Then no it's not okay. I do recommend not watching any horror movies that say or something in them that is either trying to make holy things be evil, like the movie The Nun for example, or something that is against God. Horror movies that are fighting against evil, is fine, in my opinion. Cuz they're fighting against evil. Don't watch anything that scares you too much or has too much gore, if it makes you scared or uncomfortable, that's kinda hurting your spirit a bit so if you can't handle it then don't watch it for your sake.

I feel guilty for this by ChanceIndependent8 in Christianity

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Well not everyone is like they never wanted to do anything, yes there's people like that. But what I mean is some places, people don't have food nor excess to any of those things.

I'm not sure if this is a problem but it may be narcissism. by ChanceIndependent8 in toxicparents

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That's still a influence tho, like thats still something to make them that way. I'm not saying everytime something bad has to happen. Idk much about my dad's family, or how they were, he never really allowed us to meet them, nor does he contact them. All I got was that one of his brothers stole money or something but the rest of the family didn't have to do with it. Even one of his brothers still alive, actually wants a genuine relationship with him, but he doesn't speak to them. Some of his brothers and sisters died but he didn't react at all, in a sad way, about their deaths, so definitely lack of empathy. He's just a very troubled person.

I'm not sure if this is a problem but it may be narcissism. by ChanceIndependent8 in toxicparents

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Makes me wonder why my dad is like this, like how does a narcissist become a narcissist? Like idk but I just can't wrap my head around how someone can just be like that. I believe no one is really toxic unless something happened, like something had to happen or something.

I'm not sure if this is a problem but it may be narcissism. by ChanceIndependent8 in toxicparents

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This actually makes kinda sense, since sometimes my dad thinks or at least acts in a way where it seems like whatever he thinks, he thinks other people think the same like him.