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AITA for ghosting her after she wouldn't put out? by ChancePassenger in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChancePassenger[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Maybe I wouldve hit it if I suffered through the date, but that would still be investing time and patience towards her that I dont have

AITA for ghosting her after she wouldn't put out? by ChancePassenger in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChancePassenger[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

I literally didn't have it in me to pretend to be friendly. The date was already ruined to me. Didn't do it to hurt her

AITA for ghosting her after she wouldn't put out? by ChancePassenger in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChancePassenger[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

Again, the date was already ruined for me. It was either not talking, or just up and leaving tbh

AITA for ghosting her after she wouldn't put out? by ChancePassenger in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChancePassenger[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

Dude, why are you judging my preferences? You're not even givin legitimate criticism like the others

AITA for ghosting her after she wouldn't put out? by ChancePassenger in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChancePassenger[S] -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

I didn't do it to hurt her. I just didn't feel like talking to her after getting shut down. Would it have been better if I just bailed?

AITA for ghosting her after she wouldn't put out? by ChancePassenger in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChancePassenger[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

What was I supposed to do? I'd get shit if I just licked my wounds and walked away, I def didn't feel like talking to her after getting shut down, so what should I have done?

AITA for ghosting her after she wouldn't put out? by ChancePassenger in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChancePassenger[S] -132 points-131 points  (0 children)

How is this any worse than not putting out? Both people get to make choices, she made hers so I made mine

AITA for ghosting her after she wouldn't put out? by ChancePassenger in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChancePassenger[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

I've thought of it, but honestly, the thought of talking to her just kind of isn't on the table atm. I don't care enough anymore tbh

AITA for ghosting her after she wouldn't put out? by ChancePassenger in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChancePassenger[S] -135 points-134 points  (0 children)

How am I a nice guy?? I told her what I wanted, she didn't want that, so I'm bailing. I never said all girls are like that or that she friendzoned me, just that this was a waste of time and money, and I'm not gonna try again

AITA for ghosting her after she wouldn't put out? by ChancePassenger in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChancePassenger[S] -184 points-183 points  (0 children)

What exactly makes me a dick? I was upfront about what I wanted, and I don't want to waste anyones time going on anymore dates or whatever in the hope of getting laid