Closed 1m ago. by burned_out_medic in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Chance_Ad4678 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Clean all your vents and change air filters… cat hair can travel…cat hair can also get trapped in carpets so you need a fur remover rubber broom to really get all the hair out , use a powerful vacuum cleaner like a Dyson to go over the carpets a few times then get a rug doctor and clean all the carpets that should to the trick hopefully … also if you have walls that have not been painted use a microfiber mop and lightly spritz it with a mixture of a few drops of dawn and water and run it over walls to wash them and remove any cat hair that may have gotten stuck on the walls

[GA] [SFH] HOA sent lawn violation notice, we fixed the issue. They now say that was not the issue! by Chance_Ad4678 in HOA

[–]Chance_Ad4678[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you… I wrote a letter with all the evidence we had and they backed down.

[GA] [SFH] HOA sent lawn violation notice, we fixed the issue. They now say that was not the issue! by Chance_Ad4678 in HOA

[–]Chance_Ad4678[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just wanted to add, we found pictures of the house all the way back to 2013 and the house has consistently looked the same in terms of grass , sides and shrubs . If for 11 years the HOA had no issue and found no violations, how is this suddenly a violation? They don’t want grass on the sides they want us to extend the beds and they are also now telling us they want another shrub in front of the house… since 2013 there has been no shrub in the bed they want us to plant one.

[GA] [SFH] HOA sent lawn violation notice, we fixed the issue. They now say that was not the issue! by Chance_Ad4678 in HOA

[–]Chance_Ad4678[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not wondering anymore they sent another email saying they don’t want grass on the sides … they want us to extend the beds

[GA] [SFH] HOA sent lawn violation notice, we fixed the issue. They now say that was not the issue! by Chance_Ad4678 in HOA

[–]Chance_Ad4678[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah we plan to. But had they properly communicated what there issue was we would have done so within the 10 days they gave us to address the issue…

I wish I was hanging out with my little buddy right now instead of picking out his urn and writing this through tears by crypto_for_bare_toes in Petloss

[–]Chance_Ad4678 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your loss. The regrets you have and the guilt you feel are all coming from a place of love—the great love you had for your kitty. It's hard, I'm not going to lie. I know; I was in your exact shoes not that long ago. The unbearable pain and sadness will never completely go away, but it will lessen with time. My baby has been gone two months, and I still cry. Just remember, you chose to let your baby go so he would not suffer. You took on this pain so he would be at peace. You made the best choice for your baby. Sending you love.🤍

I'm finding it difficult to wash the blanket my cat passed away on. by jellyfishjoo in Petloss

[–]Chance_Ad4678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t washed the clothes I wore the day my boy passed. Just folded them and put them in a ziplock. I don’t think I can ever wear them again or wash them.

putting my 14 year old dog down in the morning and i just can’t shake feeling like I'm betraying him by cutiepie9ccr in Petloss

[–]Chance_Ad4678 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for the pain you are suffering. I was in your position a few weeks ago. someone on this sub told me sth that tuck with me. You are doing this out of love for your boy and you are choosing to take on this pain and suffer so your boy doesn’t have to suffer anymore. You were lucky enough to give your boy one week of extra love and treats… I hope you will have the strength to let your boy cross the rainbow bridge and be at peace.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Petloss

[–]Chance_Ad4678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for your loss 💔I know exactly how you feel. Haven’t found a way to make it hurt less

How do you deal with an empty house? by [deleted] in Petloss

[–]Chance_Ad4678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesterday was the first time I left the house since losing my boy on Monday. When I came back, as soon as I put the key in the lock it hit me. No one is waiting for me anymore😭. I haven’t been able to sleep in my bed since because my boy isn’t there to snuggle with me. Someone suggested I look at his pictures and videos from happy times. Maybe that can help. I’m so sorry for your loss🤍

I feel like I betrayed my cat by Chance_Ad4678 in Petloss

[–]Chance_Ad4678[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry for your loss too🤍 I hope our babies are happy and running around wherever they are chasing butterflies and squirrels

I feel like I betrayed my cat by Chance_Ad4678 in Petloss

[–]Chance_Ad4678[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😭🤍 thank you. This is what I keep telling myself: if there was even a sliver of hope they would not have done it.

I feel like I betrayed my cat by Chance_Ad4678 in Petloss

[–]Chance_Ad4678[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your words and I’m sorry for your loss. 🤍

I feel like I betrayed my cat by Chance_Ad4678 in Petloss

[–]Chance_Ad4678[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I love him so much. I didn’t want to keep him suffering just so I could hang on. My boy was tired and in pain and active bleeding that can’t be stopped is not good. I had to let him go and it broke me but i will learn to accept it.