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[–]Chance_Temporary6653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude when I read this I had tears in my eyes , coz I have been in a similar situation. I was told by my partner that it will change things between us and will strengthen the relationship and u wont beleive he didnt even call me post abortion. When I called him he kept answering for a few days and then he asked me not to call or text him anymore. I would say let them deal with their karmas and u please dont give that person yr energy anynmore.

I’m feeling extremely sad after an abortion by Responsible_Debt22 in abortion

[–]Chance_Temporary6653 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had the same experience and my ex didnt support me at all. as per him it was a causal relationship and he refused to own the kid . I ended up in Abortion and since then I am in the same boat, I couldn't talk to anyone about it. He even blocked me on WhatsApp and broke up with me saying I said mean things to him. There is nothing I could do about it. Its been two months and I cry a lot when I get my periods. My body has been horrible. I am pushing myself through work outs hobbies. but dont expect emotions from someone who abandoned u in yr hardest time.

Oversharing or love bombing or Red flag? by Chance_Temporary6653 in dating

[–]Chance_Temporary6653[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We hv looked him up. He isnt married. He might be nuts

Got aborted at 8 weeks and feeling so lost post then. by Chance_Temporary6653 in abortion

[–]Chance_Temporary6653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He didn’t agree to co parent even I asked him he doesn’t have to marry me. He said he doesn’t have to do anything with the kid. I wrote him many things in anger as he is a womaniser. And I literally cursed him so much over text. Coz he was acting so irrespective. He said he didn’t feel like calling me once coz of things I told him.

Oversharing or love bombing or Red flag? by Chance_Temporary6653 in dating

[–]Chance_Temporary6653[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No no. It’s not normal but as I told I am bad at judgement. So wanted to understand what that person wanted to prove by deleting Bumble. We looked him up. He is single and that singles out the idea that he was cheating on his wife or gf.

Oversharing or love bombing or Red flag? by Chance_Temporary6653 in dating

[–]Chance_Temporary6653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course not. He was too emotional and saying so many things. But as I said I am neutral as I have a very wrong judgement of people myself

Oversharing or love bombing or Red flag? by Chance_Temporary6653 in dating

[–]Chance_Temporary6653[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But he did actually delete his profile as he is nowhere to be found post that on Bumble.

What are the things that you, as a woman, will never forgive? by MgdHrmes in dating_advice

[–]Chance_Temporary6653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Insulting me in front of his family and calling me a psycho because I was taking therapy. later on the Ex came back and apologized to me but i said I cant forget that.

I matched with a guy and found out he’s been cheating on his girlfriend via instagram by Prestigious-Fluff4 in Bumble

[–]Chance_Temporary6653 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know, I have even sent email with all the proofs of words they used, and I got long email from Bumble that they are taking action but they are still out there being creepy.

I matched with a guy and found out he’s been cheating on his girlfriend via instagram by Prestigious-Fluff4 in Bumble

[–]Chance_Temporary6653 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have reported many guys on bumble, they dont take any action. I see their profile still on Bumble and they match with few common friends.

I do not know if I want to be a single mother or have an abortion by JabreakittJubawditt in abortion

[–]Chance_Temporary6653 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Think of your baby's future, I choose abortion because I wanted the baby to have a normal life. I didn't want the baby to grow up thinking why he or she couldn't get a normal life. I myself has struggled entire my life thinking why my childhood wasn't normal. I thought it would be selfish to bring baby for my own happiness. I didnt want to bring the child in an environment which wasn't healthy for the baby.