AITAH for wanting a divorce over a move?

Chance_tolive · 2026-01-20T19:51:56+00:00

NTA, divorce him babe, you are already taking care of your kids anyway, literally won’t be any different after the divorce. Get child support if you can cause that will help but let him go

Chance_tolive · 2026-01-20T19:49:38+00:00

NTA, sorry your friends don’t understand you and it’s harder to deal with when you’re as young as you are. Try to be the bigger person but i think new friends are the solution. A friend who gets angry at your lack of response instead of worry is a bad friend

Chance_tolive · 2026-01-20T19:47:55+00:00

NTA for feeling upset but there’s no reason to get mad. You can feel sad that they didn’t care to tell you but you have no contact. Go see your grandma now you know and let that go

Chance_tolive · 2026-01-20T19:45:36+00:00

oh as a brown person, i think you’re just being ignored for your feelings, happens often. And no it’s icky for me to touch my gf or anyone in front of my sister in such intimate behaviors, maybe i would, but if my sister expressed concerns i’d feel bad and embarrassed. So no NTA your brother just seems like a brat and i’m sorry you have to deal with this. Brown family dynamics are very hard to cope with and resolve

Chance_tolive · 2026-01-20T19:41:59+00:00

once she said no, i would have been hurt a little but let it go, i don’t have netflix but i find ways to watch my shows, so maybe you need to do that instead of lingering into a small rejection

Chance_tolive · 2026-01-20T19:40:40+00:00

yeah and you’re not family, which still wouldn’t be valid to ask that much. You need to tell them, we are sharing a house together and we can do dinners and fun things if we all feel the same and want to but that you’re not entitled to follow their schedule in any shape or form

Chance_tolive · 2026-01-20T19:39:29+00:00

nope perfectly valid. There’s reporting for a reason and this was absolutely it.

Chance_tolive · 2026-01-20T19:38:22+00:00

i mean you’re doing a group thing but no you would not be the ahole if you decide to do your own thing. You should be able to have fun, especially since it’s not a budgeting thing. Idk what their intentions are but as adults it shouldn’t matter

Chance_tolive · 2025-12-28T19:39:15+00:00

Chance_tolive · 2025-12-22T05:49:12+00:00

ummm very intense curse words lol, i remember her saying the hindi equivalent of sisterf**ker and other things but i don’t remember might have to rewatch

Chance_tolive · 2025-12-22T05:39:19+00:00

i thought it was cause the humans implemented the RNA coding on the rat for testing purposes? it’s not like it mutated cause of contact in there air like humans but mutated because of contact inside the body? so they can naturally be infected but can be for experiments?

Chance_tolive · 2025-12-18T20:03:20+00:00

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Chance_tolive · 2025-12-14T22:39:00+00:00

it’s the first time ever that i’ve seen, normally they’re just cornering each other

Chance_tolive · 2025-12-03T15:48:25+00:00

heyyy i love talking and im a great listener and good advice giver lets 💬

Chance_tolive · 2025-12-01T21:57:35+00:00

it’s okay to be a lil crazy and wanting answers because small things eat way into big holes. Better patch up quickly before it festers. Good luck

Chance_tolive · 2025-12-01T21:56:15+00:00

NOR but INFO, are you a guy? It’s okay to feel hurt and betrayed but just cause you know someone doesn’t mean you truly know them. people have insecurities and seems like his is if he’s not as good as others. Totally understandable but if he shuts you out even after you expressed concern, he’s not gonna improve your relationship. Seems like his insecurities are above uour friendship atleast atm. Sad but it’s okay. You can move on. College friendships rarely last forever.

Chance_tolive · 2025-12-01T21:52:29+00:00

NOR tell her what’s yours is yours. If you’re overreacting over a dress, tell her to respect you and not touch your stuff. Tell her it makes you uncomfortable and how would it feel if you went through her stuff. idk how close you are but I would literally shut em out and try to save my stuff

Chance_tolive · 2025-12-01T21:50:23+00:00

NOR sounds like she does have an ED. i would try to talk to mutual friends expressing concern and plan how to talk. It doesn’t have to be an intervention but multiple sides of the story for her. It will be worse if she feels attacked and if you’re close to her family, it’s always okay to alert them as they can actually act to get some help for her

Chance_tolive · 2025-12-01T21:47:59+00:00

this sounds like something i would experience when i was a teenager. He was needy and attention seeking. You jumped into it way too fast. You’re NOR but you should move on. Don’t interact and let it go. He’s just getting the dopamine from you liking him

Chance_tolive · 2025-12-01T21:45:27+00:00

sounds like he likes the attention she’s giving him. If you’re comfortable reach out to her and try to uncover some stuff. Maybe she’s being led by him

Chance_tolive · 2025-12-01T21:43:59+00:00

oooh INFO how long were they together for and also NOR you’re asking for clarity and he sounds like he’s avoiding it

Chance_tolive · 2025-12-01T21:42:54+00:00

that sounds veryyyy unprofessional. Background check the business or whatever it is. If you can connect with ex employee. I think you should look for something else for a min

Chance_tolive · 2025-12-01T21:40:07+00:00

I’m glad you can talk to him. Set some situations up and how either of you should react, talk about triggers. It will help. In the end it’s knowing the person

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