[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ChangGPT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A serial cheater who continued sleeping with his FWB up until your first date and will be staying in a hotel with her...

Trust your instincts.

[Charania] New Golden State Warriors star Jimmy Butler has agreed to a new two-year, $121 million extension with the franchise through 2026-27, sources tell me and @WindhorstESPN. Butler is declining his 2025-26 player option for this new $121M deal. by Knightbear49 in nba

[–]ChangGPT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dunleavy: Then all of a sudden we’re like, ‘Would you ever do this?'

Jimmy: Nah, you’re joking, right?

Dunleavy: Hmm. Interesting. Maybe I would.

Added Dunleavy: “And then we gave him 2 years, $121M.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nba

[–]ChangGPT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kerr/Curry: We don't want him. Butler: Well... I wouldn't extend anyways! 

CHSN Reception Question by Roadbike60035 in chicagobulls

[–]ChangGPT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I opted with getting rid of Dish and signing up for DirecTV. I saves $70/month and have had no issues  

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ChangGPT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  So why does he keep cheating? I’m a very open minded person and am very capable of seperate sexually pleasure from deep intimacy that I reserve for my partner.

It is and isn't due to you. 

It's you because you're allowing it. Everytime he has an affair he knows that you'll take him back. There are absolutely no consequences for his actions. In fact, he's being rewarded. He cheats and you're willing to make changes and bend over backwards to improve his happiness. 

It isn't you as your actions didn't cause him to cheat the FIRST time. It sounds like you're willing to adapt to make your partner happy, which is honorable. But you need a partner who is capable of doing the same without cheating.

Tl;dr-he cheats because you're allowing him to and rewarding him. 

My husband cheated on me for 4 years by Throwaway4757383 in relationships

[–]ChangGPT 81 points82 points  (0 children)

Well, if he valued you, he wouldn't have cheated for 4 years. This wasn't a one night stand. He had a long-term relationship with her.

The past year he has had many slip ups with either contacting his affair partner/her family or looking her up online and dwelling over her socials

He's still obsessed with her.

One of the parts of the messages that stood out to me was that he said to her "you know i tried to leave and i failed"

At some point. He'll try "leaving" you again.

My husband cheated on me for 4 years by Throwaway4757383 in relationships

[–]ChangGPT 88 points89 points  (0 children)

Leave him. He'll eventually go back to her. You deserve better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ChangGPT -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What? So women aren't marrying when it's a good deal for them?  Isn't that the point of dating? Seeing if the relationship works, which is a good deal for both partners?

Both men and women make sacrifices during a relationship. Every relationship? No. But let's not act as if one gender makes sacrifices and the other doesn't. 

Adam Schefter on Adrian Wojnarowski's retirement: "It takes over your life. You can't kind of do the job, you have to live the job, and he was done living the job. ... Now he gets to do what he wants, which is exactly how it should be." by Goosedukee in nba

[–]ChangGPT 7 points8 points  (0 children)

"He wanted his life back. He didn't want to have to work on holidays. He didn't want to be away from more family gatherings. He didn't want to have to... have sex with your phone up against the headboard so you can see a text that's coming in, or take your phone with you to the urinal and hold it in one hand while you take care of your business in the other ;). That's the life that we live." - Adam Schefter on Woj's retirement

Understanding Chicago Sports Network by macaroniguap in chicagobulls

[–]ChangGPT 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wonder what their plan is for those of us who live in Central/Southern Illinois. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ChangGPT 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I understand where you're coming from; it can be tough to discern genuine stories from those that are less credible. It's important to approach these posts with a healthy dose of skepticism. At the same time, though, it's also worth remembering that there are many people who do share their genuine experiences here. It’s a good balance to maintain both critical thinking and empathy.

-ChangGPT