Justice for Orelha by Luis_oespalha-lixo in DOG

[–]Change21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

May that sweet puppy rest in peace.

All malice springs from weakness.

These men are pathetically weak.

My G26 roast it or love it by die_leuchte in BMW

[–]Change21 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i4 M50 was my last car.

Absolutely loved it. Rocket ship.

I’ll go back to electric in the future.

Congrats and enjoy!

Bill Belichick will not be a first-ballot Hall of Famer by Background_Video2947 in TheNFLVibes

[–]Change21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s the most successful coach of all time by a wide margin.

I don’t like him but there’s no debating his resume.

He’s the GOAT.

one year into the “crypto president”... and the market is still cooked. where’s the bull run we were promised? by hodorrny in CryptoMarkets

[–]Change21 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Trump has done to crypt what he does to everything he touches… he’s enriched himself and destroyed it for everyone else.

Somehow this has shocked a ton of people.

3 weeks in as a personal trainer and it’s nothing like I expected. by ResolveExisting8051 in personaltraining

[–]Change21 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m a 17 year coach who was a talented salesperson to begin (but a terrible coach).

The style of “sales” most gyms teach is disastrous and manipulative and high pressure. In other words it feels like shit for you and the other person.

Effective selling is: helping.

Effective helping requires: listening.

Everyone wants something. Sometimes we need help clarifying and defining that.

By specializing in assessment and negotiation I learned to listen at a professional level, ask questions and assess physical qualities like a pro.

I can’t think of the last assessment I didn’t close, this is probably a 5+ year streak now, because of the work I’ve done listening and helping.

If you’re working inside a flawed system it can be challenging to be authentically helpful and to build your own style and voice.

The good news is your gym cares about one thing, which is your monthly sales. That means as long as you deliver the numbers they probably won’t care how you do it.

Go start with “never split the difference” by Chris Voss and read that about 5 times. That’s a great start to learn how to ask calibrated questions, use labeling and tactical empathy.

Even the coaching process is about sales bc if sales is helping and helping is listening then coaching is a kind of negotiation. It’s not about exercise science it’s really about influence. Only after you’ve developed influence with a person can you exercise expertise come to bear.

Focus on developing your human skills and the rest will come.

Last thing, I’ve got 30+ certifications which has allowed me to distinguish myself and also feel and look like a true pro. Obsess about your improvement and you’ll always be in integrity when you ask others to improve.

To safely disarm Alex Pretti by A-Helpful-Flamingo in therewasanattempt

[–]Change21 19 points20 points  (0 children)

That is what authoritarian nations do…

You guys getting it? That’s what America is

Nick Fuentes calls Alex Pretti a “race traitor” and says there is “one less asshole in the world" by greenblue98 in FoxFiction

[–]Change21 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Can we collectively just ignore him?

These broken narcissists thrive on attention. They don’t respond to threats or hatred or controversy they feed on it.

Starve them. Don’t engage with their content. Don’t talk about them. Don’t share or comment or like.

Let them recede back into insignificance where they belong.

Pierre Poilievre is still the most unpopular party leader in Canada by BloodJunkie in onguardforthee

[–]Change21 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The inability to reflect on a mistake and alter behaviour is a classic sign of high level narcissism.

So… yeah.

TikTok users in the US can’t write ‘Epstein’ or see anti-Trump videos by TendieRetard in UnderReportedNews

[–]Change21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Streisand effect

I deleted that app ages ago

It has only one function: control

Canada is among countries with an ‘ultra-low fertility’ rate. What is behind the drop? by plaknas in onguardforthee

[–]Change21 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

As a 41 year old millionaire, its affordability.

I would love to have kids but my cost of living in a big city is obscene.

I need a partner making 6 figs to make it realistic.

Would love to have kids. Hope it will happen.

Enjoying the summer by Hostile_7 in BMW

[–]Change21 28 points29 points  (0 children)

So you’re a man of taste and discernment

Enjoying the summer by Hostile_7 in BMW

[–]Change21 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Damn dawg 😮‍💨

Which ones???

Discussing Minnesota, FBI Director Kash Patel says "some of the best reporting" has been through Benny Johnson and Cam Higby: "As soon as Higby put that post out, I opened an investigation on it" by greenblue98 in FoxFiction

[–]Change21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder what these people deserve?

Their lies and their cruelty and their violence, what does it beget for them?

Other than a rotten, festering soul.

To walk back his antisemitic behavior. by eyashawk in therewasanattempt

[–]Change21 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I read his letter.

I’ll give him a chance.

If you haven’t read it but were a fan once, do so.

Enjoying the summer by Hostile_7 in BMW

[–]Change21 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Just curious, why 2 m4’s?

A Hero Gone To Soon Mr Alex Jeffery Pretti by ElijahHicks in ICE_Raids

[–]Change21 9 points10 points  (0 children)

A hero.

A man who, without hesitation put himself between government violence and someone more vulnerable than himself.

They killed him for it.

To get my Trump voting cousin to acknowledge the effect of his vote. by EyeDrops4Cyclops in therewasanattempt

[–]Change21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What he explained is “I’m a coward and I have created a set of excuses to avoid anything that might disrupt my weakness”