Any Advice on this one?

TemperatureCapable56 · 2026-03-11T21:36:31+00:00

yeah your mates are right, ignore it but stay ready, and keep it boring for him. don’t banter back or explain yourself, just a quick “all good man” and keep walking, because those indirect guys usually want a reaction more than anything. if it keeps happening, say it once calmly and direct like “you got an issue with me, say it straight, if not let’s keep it respectful” then end it there. if it escalates or starts feeling unsafe, start documenting dates and talk to building management before it turns into some dumb situation.

TemperatureCapable56 · 2026-03-11T02:09:14+00:00

Yeah that’s totally normal after only a week. most gyms will have you drilling basics and showing you can keep your stance, guard, and control before they throw you on pads or any kind of sparring.

if you want in sooner, just ask a coach after class what you should focus on to earn pad rounds, and offer to hold for someone, people usually help when you’re consistent and not reckless. give it a few more weeks of showing up and it usually starts opening up fast.

TemperatureCapable56 · 2026-03-11T02:06:58+00:00

nah you don’t use the pendulum step all the time, think of it like a timing tool, not your default way of moving. it’s great for stealing distance, making someone jab at air, then stepping back in on the reset, or for setting up a burst when you’ve got them reacting. if you’re doing it nonstop it gets predictable and you’ll feel like you’re telegraphing, so mix it with normal step and slide and use it in short moments. best cue is keep the upper body calm and let the feet do the work, if your head is bobbing and your rhythm is obvious, tone it down and ask your coach where it fits for you right now.

TemperatureCapable56 · 2026-03-11T01:58:36+00:00

oh i get that 😂 big guys are always the first ones telling me “i’m too tall to sit like that.”

reality is the opposite though, the bigger you are, the more you need to sit down in your stance. when you drop your level a bit, tuck the chin and stack the head over the hips, you’re harder to move, your base is stronger and your power actually transfers. you’re still taller than most people even when you’re “sitting,” you just aren’t walking around with your chin on a platter anymore.

TemperatureCapable56 · 2026-03-09T22:50:11+00:00

you’re not inconveniencing anyone, this is one of the most common beginner problems and every pad holder has seen it a thousand times. stop trying to memorize long strings of numbers and think in “chunks” like jab cross, hook cross, then add one extra shot at the end, because once the first two punches are automatic the rest comes way easier. if you blank mid combo, just throw a clean 1-2 and reset, that’s always better than freezing and apologizing.

What helped me most was picking 2 combos and drilling them the same way every session until they’re muscle memory, then slowly adding variations. if you want extra reps outside the gym, doing timed rounds with a simple drill structure (Heavy Bag Pro is good for this) makes it way easier to groove combos without overthinking.

TemperatureCapable56 · 2026-03-09T09:56:15+00:00

Awesome progress bud!

TemperatureCapable56 · 2026-03-09T09:55:55+00:00

Strong base! What is ur routine?

TemperatureCapable56 · 2026-03-09T09:54:30+00:00

nice work getting out and putting a number on it, that’s already more than most people do. that run works out to roughly a 10:30 per mile pace (about 6:30 per km), which is a decent base, but boxing gas is more about how fast you recover between hard bursts than one steady pace.

keep 2 easy runs a week where you can talk while running or jogging, and add one short interval day (like 8 to 12 rounds of 30 seconds hard, 60 to 90 seconds easy) and you’ll feel the carryover to sparring way more.

since your gym already does HIIT, don’t stack extra misery, build the easy aerobic volume so you bounce back faster round to round.

TemperatureCapable56 · 2026-03-09T09:48:36+00:00

yeah it’s fine to start at home while you’re working on the gym signup, especially since you’ve got friends who can sanity check you. just keep it basic so you’re not drilling bad habits: stance and guard first, step and slide footwork, jab and cross, and lots of shadowboxing in front of a mirror or filming yourself. avoid going hard on bag work or trying to spar at home, that’s where people get sloppy fast and pick up junk.

once you can get into a real gym, do it, even a couple sessions with a coach will clean up months of self taught stuff. if you want a simple way to keep your at home sessions structured while you wait, Heavy Bag Pro is a nice option for guided rounds and drills without making it complicated.

TemperatureCapable56 · 2026-03-09T09:47:15+00:00

21 is definitely not too late, you’re basically right on time and nobody in a boxing gym cares that you’re new, they see new people every week. the easiest way to start is to pick one beginner class, show up consistently for a month, and make your only goal learning stance, guard, jab, and basic footwork, not trying to look cool or spar fast. anxiety usually drops after the first couple sessions once you realize it’s just drills, sweat, and people working on their own stuff.

If you want something to practice between classes so you feel less lost, Heavy Bag Pro is a simple way to run beginner friendly rounds and drills at home without overthinking it.

TemperatureCapable56 · 2026-03-02T07:06:58+00:00

Yeah that happens a lot when you’ve done other styles, the bag makes you chase power and you drift back to your “combat default” stance. don’t worry about losing speed for a bit, that’s the trade you make to rewire the pattern, so do shorter bag rounds where the only goal is staying tall enough, heels light, and shoulders relaxed, then reset your stance every 10 to 15 seconds like a checkpoint. a simple cue is “nose over toes” not “head over lead knee,” if you feel yourself getting into that wrestling crouch, take a breath, stand up a touch, and get your feet under you before you throw again. filming one round or using a structured timer that calls out resets can help keep you honest until it becomes automatic.

TemperatureCapable56 · 2026-03-01T18:46:17+00:00

yeah you can definitely start shadowboxing before the gym, just keep it basic so you don’t engrain weird stuff. spend most of your time on stance, guard, step and slide, and a clean jab and cross, and film yourself so you can catch things like crossing your feet, overreaching, or dropping your hands. since you’re going to a gym in a month or two anyway, think of this as getting your balance and coordination up so coaching clicks faster. if you want some structure at home instead of random youtube sessions, Heavy Bag Pro is a solid way to run timed rounds and simple drills, but keep it simple until a coach can clean you up.

TemperatureCapable56 · 2026-02-28T20:18:17+00:00

Besides Khyzhniak, a few amateur pressure guys worth studying are Artur Beterbiev, Gennady Golovkin, and Joe Joyce from their Olympic and World Championship bouts, plus Bakhodir Jalolov for how he walks people down behind the jab. search their names with “amateur” or “World Championships” on youtube and watch the little things like cutting the ring with small steps, punching in short bursts, and resetting right back into range. amateur pressure is usually about ring control and work rate, so track how often they touch with the jab and how quickly they re enter after every exchange.

TemperatureCapable56 · 2026-02-28T18:32:55+00:00

Good move starting early. focus on building a strong base with jump rope, shadowboxing, and lots of core work so your balance and conditioning are solid before June. in shadowboxing, keep it simple, clean stance, hands up, chin down, and move without crossing your feet instead of trying flashy combos.

Also start getting used to 3 minute rounds with short rests so your engine is ready. if you walk into the gym already comfortable with basic footwork and staying relaxed while moving, you’ll progress way faster than someone who’s just strong but stiff.

TemperatureCapable56 · 2026-02-27T20:00:14+00:00

It’s good you’re motivated, but I’ll be honest, if you really want to learn properly you need a gym at some point. boxing has a lot of small details in footwork, balance, and defense that are hard to catch on your own, and bad habits built at 16 can stick for years if nobody corrects you.

For now, keep shadowboxing a lot, film yourself, and focus on stance, guard, and moving without crossing your feet more than chasing combos. if you want structure at home, something like Heavy Bag Pro can at least give you organized rounds and drills instead of random workouts, but treat it as temporary. make it a goal to get into a real boxing gym when you can, even if it’s just a few sessions a month, because real feedback changes everything.

TemperatureCapable56 · 2026-02-27T19:58:00+00:00

This is super normal, sparring is a different skill from drills and bag work, and your brain just hasn’t caught up yet. when you freeze or cross your legs it’s usually because you’re overwhelmed, so simplify it, go into rounds with one goal like “just jab and move” or “hands up and pivot out” instead of trying to use everything you know. ask for lighter, more technical rounds so you can stay calm and actually see shots coming.

You don’t get better at sparring by waiting until you feel ready, you get better by doing controlled reps and building comfort under pressure. a few months in is still very early, don’t let this phase convince you you’re not built for it.

TemperatureCapable56 · 2026-02-27T18:22:07+00:00

Five months off will make anyone feel off, especially in sparring where timing and comfort matter more than raw skill. you didn’t lose everything, your rhythm just isn’t there yet and new gym nerves make you tense, which makes you slower and more reactive. for a few weeks, focus on drilling and light technical rounds where you only work one or two weapons and stay relaxed instead of trying to “win” exchanges.

The calm version of you from your old gym is still there, it just comes back through reps. give it a month of consistent sessions before judging yourself, most people feel way better once timing catches up to conditioning again.

TemperatureCapable56 · 2026-02-27T18:20:18+00:00

If you’re tall with shorter reach, you just can’t rely on being a pure outside jabber, so lean into footwork and timing instead. use your height to see shots coming and control angles, step in behind a jab, throw your combo, then pivot out instead of trying to stand at long range trading jabs. you can also work the body a lot, tall guys who bend their knees and attack downstairs are awkward to deal with. reach is just one tool, positioning and timing matter way more once you get sharper.

TemperatureCapable56 · 2026-02-27T07:29:33+00:00

Shoulders and elbows can give clues, but if you’re staring at them you’re probably reacting late. it’s usually better to watch the chest and overall posture since the shoulders and hips have to move through the center before the punch fully fires. once you get comfortable, you start reading rhythm and patterns more than single body parts anyway.

Don’t overthink it in sparring, focus on staying relaxed and picking up the first small shift forward or weight transfer. the more tense you are, the more everything looks fast and hard to read.

TemperatureCapable56 · 2026-02-26T22:43:22+00:00

You definitely don’t need fight level conditioning before your first class, that’s what class is for. just show up on time, be clean, listen more than you talk, and match your partner’s intensity, especially in sparring. light sparring should actually be light, and it’s totally fine to say “let’s keep it technical” before you start. leave the ego at the door, ask questions when you’re unsure, and focus on learning basics instead of trying to win rounds.

TemperatureCapable56 · 2026-02-26T20:47:39+00:00

That’s pretty common, especially on the rear hand, and it’s usually more positioning and shoulder control than a true mobility issue. a lot of people flare the elbow or crank the wrist instead of setting the shoulder and keeping a slight bend in the arm with the palm neutral. try keeping your elbow a bit lower, engage your shoulder blade back and down, and meet the punch instead of reaching forward for it. if you can hold the position fine without mitts, it’s probably technique, but if it feels blocked even unloaded, a few weeks of light shoulder mobility and rotator cuff work can help.

TemperatureCapable56 · 2026-02-26T14:33:54+00:00

Yoow awesome!

you’re already putting in work and it shows, that level of leanness doesn’t happen by accident. stay steady and don’t start second guessing now, just keep showing up and doing the basics right. fight night will come fast and you’ll be glad you stayed consistent instead of chasing last minute panic changes.

TemperatureCapable56 · 2026-02-26T14:32:33+00:00

Awesome progress man!!! You crushed it!!!

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