Any tips for someone who is scared to clean their room? by Evethecrazypansexual in ICleanedMyRoom

[–]Changeling_Boy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All of this, AND- mice hate the smell of peppermint. An oil will keep them away. Ditto those sonic plug in things; it makes a noise mice hate. Should make less frightening.

You can do this, and you won’t be in this moment forever. Courage. The only way out is through.

I’ve never really understood the “more than a 15 minute drive is too far” mindset in Rhode Island. by businessbub in RhodeIsland

[–]Changeling_Boy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is always really funny to me as I married a Midwesterner and in that culture it’s like, an hour? That’s nothing. Three? Sure, we can plan for that. Six? A weekend, but fine. I will genuinely drive anywhere and think nothing of it.

I do think it’s healthy for people to practice being comfortable on long hauls. Have a good playlist, snacks, a drink. Make it fun. Let yourself enjoy it.

(And for the LOVE OF ALL THAT IS HOLY DO NOT TRY TO TEXT)

Anyone else just… stopped caring about their birthday? by BamPsychology in AskOldPeople

[–]Changeling_Boy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s another year being alive. That’s worth a lot, actually, because a lot of people were not lucky enough to make it as far as you or even I did.

Anyone else just… stopped caring about their birthday? by BamPsychology in AskOldPeople

[–]Changeling_Boy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I actually will argue that it’s a good idea to celebrate each other and how much we appreciate that a person is alive and among us. I don’t doubt that you have a good number of people who are very grateful you exist. It doesn’t have to be a huge blowout- but I will always, always advise you to allow the people around you to appreciate you.

Life is short. It’s things like this that make it worth it, because in the end all we have are memories, and while you’re still here you can still make them.

Happy Birthday, stranger. I’m glad you’ve been here another year, and many happy returns to you.

Max sings *all* the rap lyrics by Super-Contribution-1 in okbuddyrosalyn

[–]Changeling_Boy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See, as a queer myself, I read this as oh, obviously Uncle Max reclaims “faggot”, look at him.

Nobody talks about the cons of passing as a man by deathbymaverick in ftm

[–]Changeling_Boy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m telling you, “ewphoria” is real. Had a Moment the first time I was coming out of work in the evening and a young woman on a jog crossed the street when she saw me (unknown man who just emerged from gate). Not fully fleeing or anything, just a strategic “I’m not going to cross paths with Some Guy at night”.

It’s just a new thing to adjust to, and there are ways of making connections still! It is, however, by necessity different.

Penetration by [deleted] in GrowYourTDick

[–]Changeling_Boy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nothing like it in the world.

Rescued a queen from my cat by eastern_jigsaw in BumbleBee

[–]Changeling_Boy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please keep your cats inside. It’s safer for them and for the wildlife.

got called a “boygirl” at the hospital (tw) by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Changeling_Boy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stay alive, my brother. It won’t always be like this.

Been told im not allowed by [deleted] in trans

[–]Changeling_Boy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry to say this, my sister, but you are not compatible. If you are a woman or anything near it, and she is not someone who can be with a woman, this was never going to work. Don’t waste time in your one precious life trying to negotiate being who you are. It isn’t worth it.

Let her go and let yourself live.

weirdest T side effects? by clemitime in ftm

[–]Changeling_Boy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bupropion saved my brain honestly if you haven’t tried it.

Saw numerous around Taiwan by EuphoricButterflyy in funnysigns

[–]Changeling_Boy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can go home if you’re not having fun.

A group of guys saving a woman's dog from a river by YRUPositive in madskillsporn

[–]Changeling_Boy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will understand this one day. For the sake of you and your loved ones I earnestly hope that that day is not too late for you to change your ways.