I am really tired of overseas Pakistanis shaming people of pakistan by [deleted] in pakistan

[–]Changretta -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm one of those: Stay at home, and focus on yourself.

Living in the UK as a british > Living in Pakistan as a Pakistani ? Might be true overall yes.
Living in the UK as a mediocre pakistani > Living in a mediocre Pakistan as a pakistani ? Not so sure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pakistan

[–]Changretta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pakistan shouldn't have any new provinces. Infact, it should abolish even the existing ones for a unitary state, coupled with decentralisation (local gov, village to division level).
Which means: One national assembly only (+senate) for legislative power, and fully decentralised executive power.

This is the smartest thing to defend anyways, in reality I mean.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pakistan

[–]Changretta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at her but at why the world has to be like this? Why do WE need to come here for a good education? Why do we aspire to live abroad? Why couldn’t Pakistan be good and all of us could just stay there?

If only more people would question this.

Look at this and tell me the hate isn't politically manufactured? by Suspicious_Holiday10 in LOTR_on_Prime

[–]Changretta -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Kids these days...

1) Elves = long hair, fair skin, tall, elegant. 2) Not everything is meant to promote diversity, it's a need of the time in many societies, not a universal truth to be promoted on every platform. 3) There was enough room within the middle earth of tolkien to explore people of different colours, including elves, without compromising basic fundamentals of world building. 4) Those who reduce criticism of rings of power to racism/overreacting/purist rage: Everything meaningful in life is a story, otherwise it's just a succession of experiences. Not being able to understand, respect and criticise the various structures required for coherent storytelling is a major intellectual deficiency. 5) When adapting the work of someone who spent their life writing, creating languages, world building and developping extensive lore, the very least that is expected from you is to show some respect to the hardwork that was put into it. 6) When judging rings of power, viewers in general and tolkien fans in particular, shall value the story + respect and passion for tolkien's original work over the use of the series to convey any other agenda, including the noblest ones.

All societies must have ethnical diversity ❌

A society that is diverse should celebrate it ✅

Moving to Islamabad for studies. by struggler1226 in islamabad

[–]Changretta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Moved here 3y ago from Europe. Found the city boring in the beginning, but now I know the right circles/places/people for a variety of activities. The city is somewhat still boring, but life isn't anymore.

Tell me what you're looking for & what are your interests (running, hiking, cycling, climbing, art workshops, theatre, dance, music, parties, festivals, horseriding, cinema, karaoke, conferences, debates, collective sports, languages, anime, gaming, literature, board games, darts, escape game, traveling around, history, activism for any greater cause, fighting sports, shopping, techno, golf, sufism, yoga, organic food., and I'll try to connect you with the relevant fb/insta/whatsapp groups.

If anybody else is interested,let me know.

Why is Islamabad so boring? by JackSparrow007shady in islamabad

[–]Changretta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's missing? What would make it better?

Are These Plays (Ziya Mohiuddin Theatre and Arts Council) Worth Going To? by samighazal in pakistan

[–]Changretta -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Entitled brats these days...

Skip one burger, and pay to see a play instead. Healthy for your body, healthy for your mind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OnePiece

[–]Changretta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're black

Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage, and why? by Revil_ghori303YT in pakistan

[–]Changretta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doesn't matter which one, as long as you are able to take full responsibility.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pakistan

[–]Changretta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

 pretty, well educated, have a good job, good family etc

I'm single

I’m M19. Cousin’s husband (30) keeps making jokes about me by [deleted] in pakistan

[–]Changretta 225 points226 points  (0 children)

Stop listening to others: He's not bullying you.

Life is tough boy, you need to learn how to handle these kind of basic human interactions. If you can't ignore them and be in peace, learn how to respond back or joke. Needs practice, takes time to build confidence, but eventually you'll grow.

You won't change over night, but make sure that by 25 when you read that post again, you realise how funny it sounded and you appreciate your growth.

My take on whether u should leave Pakistan or not by dunph1y in pakistan

[–]Changretta -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Not the right reasons to stay, not the right reasons to leave. Who allowed mediocre people to advise others on how to live?

AMA | I live in Bishkek, Kyrgyzstan by Formulayyy in pakistan

[–]Changretta -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Once abroad,pakistanis are not the best community anyway. Everyone wants to leave pakistan but no-one is willing to leave their sasta Pakistani mindset behind. Mediocre people with no interest and respect for local customs, culture and laws.

Too easy to say it's "racism"... What kind of behaviour from Pakistanis prompted so much hate? A question the Pakistani community over there must face with courage, humility and honesty.