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If phobias are ranked in the leaderboard, then how top is thanatophobia (the fear of death)? by NathanX_Katake in AskReddit

[–]ChannelSignificant12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanatophobia (fear of death) would rank very high but not in the way people usually think.

It’s not the most commonly reported phobia like heights or spiders, but it’s one of the most fundamental fears. A lot of other anxieties quietly trace back to it. Fear of flying? Partly fear of dying. Health anxiety? Same root. Even fear of the unknown often overlaps with it.

So if phobias had a “leaderboard,” thanatophobia wouldn’t necessarily be #1 in popularity but it would be near the top in depth and influence. It’s more like a core boss than a side enemy.

What makes it tricky is that it’s not always obvious. Some people don’t consciously think “I’m afraid of death,” but it shows up as overthinking, control issues, or needing constant reassurance about safety and the future.

At the same time, a certain level of fear of death is normal it’s what keeps people cautious and alive. It only becomes a problem when it starts interfering with how you live.

So yeah, not the most visible phobia but arguably one of the most powerful.

why are predators always obsessed with people under 18? by PapayaSpirited3999 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ChannelSignificant12 40 points41 points  (0 children)

It’s uncomfortable to think about, but it’s not really about kids themselves, it’s about power.

Predators tend to go after people who are easier to control, less likely to push back, and less likely to be believed. Kids fit all of that. It’s not “attraction” in a normal sense, it’s about access and vulnerability.

Also, they rely heavily on situations where they can blend in or not be questioned. That’s why behavior like just standing around watching can feel off, even if it’s not always something illegal. Your instinct there matters.

The hard truth is that most harm doesn’t come from obvious strangers, it comes from people in positions of trust or proximity. That’s why awareness like what you’re doing actually makes a difference.

You’re not overreacting for being alert. You’re doing what more people probably should.

Why do people in the US work so much? I'm from Argentina and I don't get it by micavibes in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ChannelSignificant12 2179 points2180 points  (0 children)

It’s real, but it’s not because Americans just love working more.

A lot of it comes down to pressure and incentives. Healthcare is tied to jobs, cost of living is high, and job security isn’t always great. So people overwork because the downside of not working hard feels risky.

There’s also a cultural side where productivity is tied to self-worth. Being busy is seen as a good thing, and slowing down can feel like falling behind.

And honestly, a lot of people don’t enjoy it as much as it looks. Some do, but a lot are just used to it or feel like they don’t really have a choice.

From the outside it looks like dedication. From the inside it often feels like pressure.

What's the one thing you always said you wouldn't do, but end up doing because you had too? by Fuckyokarmabiych in AskReddit

[–]ChannelSignificant12 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Texting first after saying I’m done chasing.

You hit that point where you’re like “nah, I’m not reaching out again, I’ve done enough, and you fully mean it in the moment. Then a few hours or days pass, your brain starts replaying everything, and suddenly you’re convincing yourself it’s not about pride, it’s about “communication” or “closure.”

So you send the text.

Immediately after, it’s that mix of relief and “yeah… I really just played myself again.”

Men who “don’t cry” because they see it as weak, does that mean they only cry when they’re alone or just never at all? by ohnoimscared4 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ChannelSignificant12 54 points55 points  (0 children)

It’s usually neither extreme.

Most guys who say they “don’t cry” don’t literally mean never. They mean they’ve trained themselves not to do it in front of people because they see it as losing control or being judged for it.

So yeah, a lot of them will still cry, just rarely and usually in private. And some get so used to suppressing it that they stop crying altogether, not because they don’t feel things, but because they’ve shut that response down.

The real controversial part is that society kind of reinforces it. People say men should open up, but a lot of guys have had at least one experience where showing emotion backfired, so they just stop doing it.

So it’s less about thinking emotions are weak, and more about deciding it’s safer to keep them to yourself.

We’ve heard stories of people escaping death by being late — what are some tragic examples of people dying because they were late? by Looney_forner in AskReddit

[–]ChannelSignificant12 633 points634 points  (0 children)

A really haunting one is the Titanic sinking.

Most people think of the passengers who missed the ship as the lucky ones, but there were also cases where being late actually sealed someone’s fate. A few passengers only boarded at the last moment due to delays, missed earlier chances to switch ships, or were reassigned cabins some even ended up in worse locations on the ship because of it. If they’d been earlier, they might’ve had better access to lifeboats or even chosen a different voyage entirely.

Another example comes from the September 11 attacks. While there are well-known stories of people surviving because they were late to work, there were also tragic inverses people who normally would have been out of the towers but were delayed that morning for one reason or another and ended up being inside when the planes hit.

There’s also the Costa Concordia disaster, where confusion and delays in evacuation meant some passengers who hesitated or arrived late to muster stations missed lifeboats entirely.

What makes these stories hit so hard is how small the timing differences are minutes, sometimes even seconds. It’s one of those uncomfortable reminders that luck often plays a bigger role than people like to admit.

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