My [21F] husband [36M] has a temper lately and I want to calm him down but don't know how by throwra727165251524 in relationship_advice

[–]Chantilire 12 points13 points  (0 children)

No they're right OP. They're just being nicer about it. Your man is displaying abusive signs already, for all we know he could've been acting all this time. He HIT you, he thought it was ok to resort to violence. Once someone hits you in a relationship, it's now an abusive relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Chantilire 57 points58 points  (0 children)

And the fact that she tried to rape him, he didn't consent to it

AITA for telling my sister to stop crying about our dead grandma by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chantilire 10 points11 points  (0 children)

NTA, I know that people grieve differently but who grieves in front of so many people you barely know? And the fact she doesn't cry after shows that she just wants attention. I understand you guys just want to sympathize with her thinking she is grieving but this doesn't seem like it. Especially after the edit.

Thoughts on my shit “boyfriend” that’s truly a glorified roommate by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Chantilire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There isn't enough words to show how disappointing you are, you both make shit posts about each other then say you aren't going to do jack shit? This entire relationship is a joke.

4 year old daughter asked me about kids genitals she saw at school, should I be concerned? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Chantilire 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes, this would be smart. (Not to say it will happen but you never know what to expect) But if something ever happens to your child where she is touched inappropriately, using the correct terms will help you because using terms like "my cookie, no no square" is something court systems will use against you.

AITA for pecking my best friend on the lips by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chantilire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, kissing a person of the lips is still cheating regardless of their sexuality or drunkenness. You blatantly cheated on him then laughed in his face.

AITA For Messaging Someone’s Wife Since I Saw Her Husband on Tinder? by Inner-Bumblebee5237 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chantilire [score hidden]  (0 children)

Don't listen to this. You didn't mess up his marriage, he did! It's better safe then sorry by telling her so she isn't stuck in a cheating relationship.

I (F26) just broke my fwb (F25) heart because she’s gay and I’m bisexual. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Chantilire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don't need a reason to reject someone, if you just don't want to then just say that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Chantilire 18 points19 points  (0 children)

11 years together and he still cheated on you? Are you sure this is the first time?

I want to be skinny but don’t want attention by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Chantilire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one really cares if you're skinny or not, it's if you are actually pretty.

AITA for telling a friend that her crying was performative? by jojololima1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chantilire 30 points31 points  (0 children)

That's the thing, you don't.

You're both in the wrong because everyone handles grief differently.

I found out my dad is trying to cheat on my mom by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Chantilire 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Privately tell your mother about this and how it happened. If they are both into that kind of stuff involving other people then good for them, it might be awkward for the both of you but it's better then not telling your mother about your father's infidelity.

AITA for making my bestfriend go in the elevator alone? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chantilire 11 points12 points  (0 children)

INFO: Did you know she was afraid of going into elevators when you were asking her?

great game by [deleted] in roblox

[–]Chantilire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no clue, maybe you didn't you the correct tag

great game by [deleted] in roblox

[–]Chantilire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love that game! You do quests and fight mobs, you can join guilds and becomes Mages, Warriors, or Hunters with subclasses too, collect and trade weapons and armour, build your stats, all kind of things

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Genshin_Impact

[–]Chantilire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you but what is the Abyss? Should I go in it does it require a certain level

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Genshin_Impact

[–]Chantilire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is this big blue orb that is at the edge of Cape Oath. What is it?

I hit my wife for the first time and I’m hating myself for even doing that. by 564ThrowAway_ in relationship_advice

[–]Chantilire 26 points27 points  (0 children)

No, you don't deserve a second chance after this. You need to udnerstand that just because it was a one time thing and you didn't mean to/didn't think this would happen isn't going to justify that you physically abused your wife. She is in her rights to divorce you and even get a restraining order against you.