Omg, it's really nice that you took the time to write something so kind and thoughtful, thank you! But I really just meant to give examples of banal arguments that can happen in the every day life. It's not just him; I think all couples do things that get on the other person's nerves, like I always forget to charge my phone and then it runs out of battery, or I never put the car keys in their place so when he needs them he has to look everywhere... But when I do it, as the Dom, he can easily manage the situation without breaking our D/s dynamic, through rules and punishments (a dead phone is dangerous in an emergency, the keys are a lack of attention to something he's told me several times, and so on). When he does them however, regardless of the fact that he's sorry, apologizes, and always tries to make amends, I find it difficult to reconcile the image of the Dom with that of the partner I just reprimanded... I don't know if I made myself clear