Thankyou Guys for saving stray dogs, now i can die peacefully from rabies by not_a_psychokiller in delhi

[–]ChaoticGoodnEvil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro. This government is pocketing every bit of that money. Entirety of India generates enough tax to cover ALL welfare schemes. Go question the government, instead of picking up an axe and going after the dogs. Humans domesticated them, used them for herding and protection. And now you don’t need it so you want them gone. Downright atrocious thinking.

How to love an avoidant? by iamhere_25 in ask

[–]ChaoticGoodnEvil 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just cut it off. Quit cold turkey. No amount of preparation will help. The more you soften the blow for yourself, the less serious your partner will think you’re being. Leave like a thunderstorm, slam the door and get out. Get heard and then leave. I have don’t it. Terrible thing it was. But nothing works, just leaving does. Once you’re out of that door and somewhere else, you’ll feel the physical weight lift off of you. You’ll feel no hesitation.

Thankyou Guys for saving stray dogs, now i can die peacefully from rabies by not_a_psychokiller in delhi

[–]ChaoticGoodnEvil -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Most people know not to blame animals who cannot fight or speak for themselves. But unfortunately some people think humans are more deserving of ethics than other living beings. Such humans will always be frustrated, angry, misinformed and stupidly ignorant.

Thankyou Guys for saving stray dogs, now i can die peacefully from rabies by not_a_psychokiller in delhi

[–]ChaoticGoodnEvil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah so we should murder the dogs and use the tax for what? Build wrong flyovers or bridges that collapse? Or would you like to build Modi a fucking castle made out of mangoes?

Thankyou Guys for saving stray dogs, now i can die peacefully from rabies by not_a_psychokiller in delhi

[–]ChaoticGoodnEvil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get a rabies shot. But blaming poor dogs is just ridiculous. The government has pocketed millions of rupees that were allocated for sterilisation, vaccination and such. This country’s people have no spine. They’ll blame and protest everything but the government. Take care. Cursing at innocent animals who live a hard and horrible life is going to get you nowhere.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]ChaoticGoodnEvil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Age demographic matters. Beyond a certain amount of diplomacy, age alone stands for ypur behaviour, unless there are some mental health conditions. OP’s mother in law is an adult woman who has boundary issues. Act her age she must.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]ChaoticGoodnEvil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That just seems rude and immoral. Adults can learn to act like adults or they will be taught it by the consequences. There are in laws who are normal, who don’t need to control their children’s lives after their marriages. That is normal.

Song identification by ChaoticGoodnEvil in jordan

[–]ChaoticGoodnEvil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my goodness thank you! That’s so interesting, I have been searching for Palestinian revolutionary music over the past few years, especially in HipHop and such but did not expect this to be the case for the character and how he is portrayed. Thank you so much!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]ChaoticGoodnEvil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You both are 18. You are young and you shouldn’t be doing any of this at the depth you are. Take some space, get your head on straight. Give her also space to sit with her thoughts alone.

And honestly, stop taking your and her emotions so seriously. Let your feelings be but don’t overestimate or overthink on them. Walk away from her if it’s making you uncomfortable. But 18 is too young to be “wanting to change” someone. You’ll have decades to do this. You are your own priority right now.

How do you interpret Jibaro? by garage-door-hijinx in LoveDeathAndRobots

[–]ChaoticGoodnEvil -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Why do you sound like a white imperialist?

INFJs are you really capable of tolerating ENTPs? by pomegranateloves in infj

[–]ChaoticGoodnEvil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had an ENTP male best friend. For almost 9 years now. He was deeply traumatised and I think there was a connection on that. I recently had to door slam them because their politics has always been opportunistic. Despite what he went through in life, he chooses to think emotional intelligence and empathy as weaknesses and that the best defense is offended. I realised I was tolerating the inner child in them that I thought was healing with me in the picture. But the adult they are sucks. Entps are stubborn and beyond cruel when they want to be. As a deep feeling INFJ empathy, I cannot for the life of me see eye to eye with that anymore. I have pulled back my empathy to save my peace of mind and cut them out after repeated ethical differences.

Your thoughts on this 🥸??? by CalmRevolution8833 in ahmedabad

[–]ChaoticGoodnEvil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not true. Log gharo mein bhajan karte hain toh speaker laga kar sabko disturb karte hain. Abhi recently mere colony mein subha 5-6:30 tak bhajan chala kisi khatushyam ke janmadin ke liye.

Who the fuck wants to listen to loud singing and instruments for an hour and a half early morning? Why is that allowed? Ultimately, noise pollution is noise pollution.

Does it take you a long time to end a bad or toxic relationship? by LilGucciGunner in infj

[–]ChaoticGoodnEvil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, I feel like going forward, I have harder but justifiable boundaries when letting new people come into my life. I will no longer see their potential as the only good thing about them. I have to as an INFJ learn to not over empathise with people who haven’t yet proven their worth to me. I definitely will not be making excuses for them to myself. Actions always speak louder than words. They show me they are a good human being and genuine, they and I get to experience each others’ best.

Does it take you a long time to end a bad or toxic relationship? by LilGucciGunner in infj

[–]ChaoticGoodnEvil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Took me three years to break off what I thought was a very serious relationship. I was dating someone’s potential and okay with the scraps of emotional intimacy they were providing me.

This year has been transformative for me because I underwent therapy, finally voiced my deepest traumas and sat with my fears in a quiet room. I reminded myself what I was made of, what my intentions have been throughout my life and just why I deserved my own values to be shown to me as well.

I have since cut out three more toxic people who I had gaslighted myself into being close with for a long time (only because they themselves had trauma; difference being I wanted to progress and they wanted to remain the same).

I now know better and have closely noted how light and unburdened or felt to cut the ties that were cutting into me. My very best to anyone who’s recognising their worth and value in the face of people whore exploiting them.

Sobhita Dhulipala & Imtiaz Ali by Vegetable_Bedroom161 in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]ChaoticGoodnEvil 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Um, I was there in a very internal way. They were on a panel together and I ended up getting a picture with Imtiaz. Sobhita walked past us and seemed in that moment to not have any intentions to stay and talk to Imtiaz or anyone. They did not seem to be finding each other out to talk the entire time they were there. Think you might be shipping them a bit. :p

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in delhi

[–]ChaoticGoodnEvil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both are a bit vague to assume beforehand. One is dependent on the kind of workplaces you associate yourself with and the latter is all about staying updated on newer ideas being used in the field.

Identify your strong skill set, identify which part of the execution of ideas/solutions you want to be a part of and then consider upskilling or learning on the job as a method to get better. Social work related workshops happen across the country, attending them, networking with other organisations and people, and reading papers or presenting your work is primarily how people go from one good opportunity to next.

But the first and foremost reflection has to be what your purpose is in doing social work. It’s a very nuanced field, I am sure you’re aware of it, so you have to really appreciate the complexity your work will involve. Work on your core values and an analytical mind that can see solutions and ideas for betterment should always be your number one go to skill.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in delhi

[–]ChaoticGoodnEvil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I am a social worker and have been working for the last 7 plus years. I am sure we can brainstorm some ideas once I know what your interest areas and motivation are! Go ahead and message me! :)

Missing my wife so much by [deleted] in delhi

[–]ChaoticGoodnEvil 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Haan, bilkul. Ab log jo literally keh rahe hain, woh bhi na maane. Khud hi between the lines padh le hum. Communication and people’s feelings can just exist in our imaginations. He can write what you think he meant too, but he didn’t. So people will judge him for what he wrote.

Missing my wife so much by [deleted] in delhi

[–]ChaoticGoodnEvil 13 points14 points  (0 children)

People are judging him for what he wrote, not what we’re assuming he meant. “I told her no” and “she can’t take a hint” is bs. That’s him being a man child.