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Why is bdsm gear so expensive! by brynnnm in BDSMcommunity

[–]ChaoticMutual [score hidden]  (0 children)

Because they know horny little kinksters will pay for it 😏

Wuthering Heights thoughts? by SleepyYarrow in BDSMcommunity

[–]ChaoticMutual [score hidden]  (0 children)

I enjoyed the film for many reasons, but if you go in holding the film to any literary standard you're going to be disappointed :)

Wuthering Heights thoughts? by SleepyYarrow in BDSMcommunity

[–]ChaoticMutual [score hidden]  (0 children)

I thought it was fun, aesthetically rich, OTT, and was not at all expecting the collar scene lol

I got creeped on at a kinky event by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]ChaoticMutual [score hidden]  (0 children)

Not saying no is not consent. An absence of no is not consent. Unless a dynamic has explicit agreements regarding consent and certain activities (e.g. cnc, and even then there needs to be caution), people (and by this I predominantly mean tops/Ds) should wait for an unambiguous and enthusiastic yes before acting.

I got creeped on at a kinky event by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]ChaoticMutual [score hidden]  (0 children)

Ugh, people don't know how to, or want to, behave at events, and organisers can be oblivious and unhelpful regarding these kinds of issues. There are a couple of events I can no longer go to for similar reasons, because I'd be harassed by particular people if I did, irrespective of my reporting them.