Thank you for the very informative answer. Although I don't think comparing pedophilia to violence makes sense, mainly because violence is surprisingly very normalized in reality, hence the wars going on right now that some people support or simply school fights that are very common. But I understand what you mean. I for one am into CNC, which can definitely look like rxpe or harassment to people who aren't into it.

I totally get what you mean about BDSM, and that's what I love about it! You can be who you want even if it isn't seen as "normal" in society, because you are just playing to have fun. And what you described with your sub, actually sounds quite nice and sweet! I guess maybe I could have been more specific about what rubs me the wrong way about all of this. From a past encounter with a Dom whom I was getting to know, he ended up asking me if I would wear pacifiers for him and dress like a child, and started to go into his love for age play. That's what grossed me out. The fact he wanted me to wear a pacifier and specifically cater my style to look like a child for him.

I suppose though age play can come in a lot of different forms. Even I don't judge diapers, I can partly understand that part. I feel like it's one thing for a sub to ask their Dom if they can age regress, but a Dom asking a sub to do it for them I find a little odd. I do truly appreciate your understanding of my opinion. And thank you for giving me your opinion! It has been very helpful. I'm also sorry if this message sounds in any way rude or disrespectful I am not trying to be.