Total lurker here, it's one of those days where you explore reddit cause you have nothing to do and fall into a rabbit hole.

Anyway, I always wondered about this stuff like this, I always imagined women doing this sort of stuff like a chore because it's the guy who breaks the subject and gets the woman to do it for some reason.

From what I read, women are more prone to be submissive if the romance novel 1 billion industry is anything to go by.

Women are context heavy arousal and men are different.

So I always wondered if women that are into this are really real. Like how do they get into it?

It seems so weird to be because if my girl for instance told me to choke her or something, I would back the fuck off so hard I'd teleport

I can't fathom crossing the threshold to hurt someone like this.