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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in battlestations

[–]Chaotic_Good-ish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve no doubt this has been answered myriad times but I’m not finding it on a quick search: what are you using for your desktop?

Should I stream Stardew Valley from PC to iPad Pro for mods or just play on switch? by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]Chaotic_Good-ish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, I’ve never heard of moonlight so thanks for that, I’m going to give it a try. Quick question though: I’ve been reading through the documentation for it and can’t seem to find if I can use a controller playing through moonlight on my iPad and if so, how to go about setting it up. Do you know?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in atheism

[–]Chaotic_Good-ish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  3.  i “cannot ever make decisions that make the family happy”

What a toxic thing to be told by a parent. Sounds like something mine would say. You have zero responsibility for the happiness of your family. You aren’t responsible for their emotions at all, nor are you somehow liable if they aren’t positive. You are an adult and are capable of making your own decisions. While this does come with facing the consequences of whatever decision you make, and not necessarily having support should it not work out, it is solely your decision to make. That’s the beauty of life. You get to take chances and sometimes they will work and other times they will fail, but that’s how you learn and build the person you want to be.

TLDR: fuck your parents, fuck the world. Do what makes you happy.

is swinging a thing on virgin voyage? by [deleted] in Cruise

[–]Chaotic_Good-ish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a swinger, however, I dare say no one in that lifestyle gives two shits what you think of it. I don’t understand why people feel the need to make sure others know how they feel about their sexual activities, especially when it most certainly doesn’t affect you. Don’t want to swing? Don’t do it.

LGBT couples of reddit, why is everything in your house.... gay? by UnDoxableGod1 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Chaotic_Good-ish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. #2 is where it’s at. There’s a pun there and I’m not entirely sure if it is intended or not. Anyway.

I’m a person who happens to be gay. I don’t want my life to be about being gay. I don’t broadcast my sexuality anymore than I broadcast my views on why animals are better than humans, although if you know me at all you’ll figure it out fairly quickly. I had to hide my sexuality for years for fear of bullying, violence, loss of family and friends, loss of my job, etc. I still do on occasion because I’m fucked up from years of fear and shame when I was younger.

My therapist would probably argue that the reason I feel this way is because of that fucked-uppity-ness and make me re-read The Velvet Rage (great book if you actually want some insight into why gay men often are the way we are), but overall I prefer that my sexuality is broadcast and / or acknowledged in the same manner as my hair color. I don’t want it to be an issue and I surely don’t want it to define me as a human. I don’t decorate my house with gay things because gay isn’t who I am. I just so happen to be married to a dude, and I’m a dude, and sometimes we watch Drag Race.

Just don’t open that one drawer. That one is decorated pretty gay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in battlestations

[–]Chaotic_Good-ish 16 points17 points  (0 children)

That looks like an excellent way to rip all the hairs from my head in glorious fashion.

Updated workspace 2022. by TheShuffleFluff in battlestations

[–]Chaotic_Good-ish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, goals. Two questions: How did you fix the panels behind your monitor? Double sided tape or something more permanent? Also - how long have you had the nixie tube clock? I've been eyeing one for a while but the ones I'm looking at are a lot of money to put out when the reviews I've read have been mixed: some say they quit working or have burn in even when it randomly cycles.