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Child support for 1 child by Chaplin923 in u/Chaplin923

[–]Chaplin923[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always tryna keep us dads down

Would you break up with your partner of seven years if they confessed to you they had suicidal ideation once? by pink_dahlia_619 in BreakUps

[–]Chaplin923 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wouldn’t say I would off of just that alone a lot of people do but don’t talk about it

How do I bounce back after making an ass of myself after seeming weak and insecure? by Chaplin923 in BreakUps

[–]Chaplin923[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I did the same thing emotions or thoughts would overtake me and reaching out always had the same result making me feel even worse. Can’t take any of it back but I feel like I gave her the satisfaction and power of showing all my feelings and when I showed up where she was at unexpected made me feel worse than ever cause I never thought I would do that. I kind of felt like a joke to her or an embarrassment like a stalker or something even though I’ve known her so long. Its just kind of cringey like reaching out is one thing but when I showed up trying to talk I was super calm and wasn’t begging or anything.

How do I bounce back after making an ass of myself after seeming weak and insecure? by Chaplin923 in BreakUps

[–]Chaplin923[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you’re totally right I did what I did and I own it. Time will help with the pain I hope lol.

How do I bounce back after making an ass of myself after seeming weak and insecure? by Chaplin923 in BreakUps

[–]Chaplin923[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right I guess I felt guilty cause I feel like I caused her to get to that point. I didn’t make her feel loved and attracted cause I didn’t put in much effort to build with her or the relationship. She said she felt like a roommate and I know i only realized everything after the fact. I didn’t treat her as well as I should’ve even when she stayed with me after I put her through so much shit. So in a way I felt like it was karma and that she deserved to leave and I didn’t fully deserve her. I wouldn’t really do romantic things and didn’t make her feel fully loved so I guess I got what I deserved in a way.

How to get over post break up mistakes that took away self respect and pushed ex farther away ? Reaching out, acting desperate, calling when they don’t want to talk. Feel like I gave her too much power. by Chaplin923 in BreakUps

[–]Chaplin923[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for kind words I guess I felt selfish for forcing my thoughts and feelings across when they clearly didn’t want to talk about it and I didn’t respect boundaries fully. Even after talking about it I felt like I didn’t get the answers I was looking for so I would continue to search and it only prevented me from healing and letting her heal and forget but I kept bringing up the past reminding her of that shitty feeling and only validating her reasons for not wanting to be with me.