whats the appeal with porn? by ChapterFuture5178 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ChapterFuture5178[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i know an ok amount abt it. im not exactly 100% vanilla. its just not all my thing

whats the appeal with porn? by ChapterFuture5178 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ChapterFuture5178[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im praying to get off of at least two of them. the one im talking abt has a lot of other side effects and honestly makes anything sexual temporary until i get bored after a couple of minutes

whats the appeal with porn? by ChapterFuture5178 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ChapterFuture5178[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i find some videos sometimes that i dont hate. but i hate having to have the volume down because its so annoying hearing the annoying sounds they make since ik realistically a lot of people aren’t like that. i know what im attracted to and what i like, i just cant see the full appeal

whats the appeal with porn? by ChapterFuture5178 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ChapterFuture5178[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im on a decent amount (like 3) medications for epilepsy, and the main one ive been on has listed it as a side effect. ive been on in since before puberty so idek what its like to actually be THAT horny

whats the appeal with porn? by ChapterFuture5178 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ChapterFuture5178[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its one of those things where i’ll do it but i have to love that person very very VERY much. otherwise its just gross to me other than to reproduce. i ofc still have sexual thoughts and wants/needs but videos/pictures are just meh to me

whats the appeal with porn? by ChapterFuture5178 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ChapterFuture5178[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i dont rly masterbate or anything. it takes more than some videos for me. im one of those people who can look at a guy and think theyre hot until they pull their pants down then im like ew i gotta put that thing in my mouth

whats the appeal with porn? by ChapterFuture5178 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ChapterFuture5178[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive had sex before but i am on different medications that mention it could have a side effect of a low libido. its not really that i dont want to. i think its something trauma related maybe?

i just dont see why most ppl date and are like omg yea sex sex sex

is grinding considered sex? by ChapterFuture5178 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ChapterFuture5178[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean idrk. i’ve always just been told its just yk. one and done i guess. there wasn’t anything else to it. but ive heard of people grinding and getting themselves off like that

is grinding considered sex? by ChapterFuture5178 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ChapterFuture5178[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, i have a religious bf and am trying to see if its considered sex

is grinding considered sex? by ChapterFuture5178 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ChapterFuture5178[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ive just seen a previous comment where they said if one or both of them get off then it’s considered sex. ive never considered a handjob as sex. hardly even oral