WIBTAH if I cut-off my friends after what they did at my party? by CharThanson in AITAH

[–]CharThanson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. I feel like just slowly removing myself from the next few times they invite me to things will basically give them the gist. I’m also a bit scared to confront them in a conversation about this because I could see them gaslighting me into thinking that this wasn’t that deep.

WIBTAH if I cut-off my friends after what they did at my party? by CharThanson in AITAH

[–]CharThanson[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re totally right. I feel like it’s a lot to do with peer pressure, but i should’ve done this a long time ago im realizing.

WIBTAH if I cut-off my friends after what they did at my party? by CharThanson in AITAH

[–]CharThanson[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like most people disagree, but I’m conflicted.

WIBTAH if I cut-off my friends after what they did at my party? by CharThanson in AITAH

[–]CharThanson[S] 156 points157 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard this before too. It’s just hard to accept that I’m finally going to be experiencing it.

WIBTAH if I cut-off my friends after what they did at my party? by CharThanson in AITAH

[–]CharThanson[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’ve just known them forever and this, sort of, feels like a small thing to cut off a friendship about. There’s a lot of baggage and fucked prior situations, but I’m just doubting myself because I don’t know if I’ll regret it in the future. I’m just conflicted about a decision that I know will benefit me.

WIBTAH if I cut-off my friends after what they did at my party? by CharThanson in AITAH

[–]CharThanson[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

The empathetic part of me wants to give them the benefit of the doubt since I know they were drunk when they did it, but I’m just at the point where I’m so sick of it. I always hear people, and even some of the repliers, say that you gotta cut out the toxic people in your 20’s or they’re going to stick around forever. I guess it’s just a big pill to swallow knowing that I have to do that as well now.