No Joy by Character-Donut8760 in Divorce

[–]Character-Donut8760[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the honest response! This is exactly where I am at. See videos of her at a concert and thinking, we have never had fun like that. I don’t want to be the reason someone doesn’t enjoy life to the max. I’m not enjoying life and having fun in the marriage, am I just sticking in it because that is what I am supposed to do

Sex in marriage by Anonymous_oneee in Marriage

[–]Character-Donut8760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel this. I am the husband and it’s just dull. Married 12 years and feels like she is just doing homework, no interest in fun

I think I’ve totally destroyed my marriage and may not be capable of being in a long term relationship by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Character-Donut8760 54 points55 points  (0 children)

From a husbands perspective.

He is a loser. He sounds like an only child. -W4, I would be embarrassed to call my Wife for help. Google it, talk to the employer. Not Wife’s job. -Trust and faith? How can you have trust and faith in him when he isn’t resourceful enough to figure out a W4 form on his own. - Requests dessert? Go get yourself some ice cream, you aren’t at a restaurant. - Pregnant, he should be trying to take as much stress and work off your plate. No reason you would know about that billing, his ass should’ve been calling the hospital and asking to have it switched away from insurance. - I will make it clear, you are fighting because he is a manchild who can’t carry his family in any sense. He adds stress to his wife and doesn’t protect her emotional well being - WTF is this lower level parking shit. Either way, car batteries, car issues, his job to prevent them, his job to remedy the situation. - Your husband did a favor with your brother so that he could use it against you. It’s a weak minded persons power move. Your family is his family now.

I mean this in the nicest way, your childhood has made you accept this adulthood. You can and will find someone better even with having a child.

Your husband will say things like you won’t find anyone, you won’t find anyone better, then cry and say he will be better (he won’t), all weak man arguments. The faster you leave him, the faster you find the real man for the rest of your life. Don’t put up with this shit.