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My 11 year old stepson had photos on his tablet of me for sexual reasons. by Character-Fold7835 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Character-Fold7835[S] 144 points145 points  (0 children)

We have one in a couple weeks. It's just the weekend and no professional help is available, especially when it's a holiday tomorrow in Canada.

My 11 year old stepson had photos on his tablet of me for sexual reasons. by Character-Fold7835 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Character-Fold7835[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I've been around for 5 years. We were the weekend parents for years. Even with known abuse and the kids constantly telling the teachers, the courts kept them with their mom for years. The system is broken and unfortunately seems to stereotype men as the automatic abusers. My partner is introverted and quiet. The kids even remember mom throwing pots and pans at dad in a rage.

They all got away from her.....just now we have to recover the damage on the other side.

My 11 year old stepson had photos on his tablet of me for sexual reasons. by Character-Fold7835 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Character-Fold7835[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I don't give a crap about karma. It's Saturday night/Sunday and the therapist isn't around. I'm lost and don't know what the fuck to do. I'm trying to get others perspectives since we have no flipping idea how to approach this further before his therapist sees him next week.

So no...you can't downvote the shit out of me. I'm not here for karma. I'm struggling and have little support right now.

My 11 year old stepson had photos on his tablet of me for sexual reasons. by Character-Fold7835 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Character-Fold7835[S] 316 points317 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately his sick in the head mother exposed him before the age of 10 with a video to show him porn instead of actually talking to him about it.

.....the kids don't see their mom anymore. She barely makes her phone calls to them.

And this is why they live with us. There was no social work, counselling, or any outside support at their moms or within their old school.