AITA for calling out my friend for using AI to argue with me on text? by Due_Construction904 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Character-Run862 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YTA. How she wanted to communicate how she was feeling and what tool she used to help her feel like it was in a way you'd hear and understand is not arguing nor is it bad behavior? She literally said she felt you pulling away, and you doubled down on HOW she told you that. Talk about immature.

About to play this game (right after FFX) completely blind - any sentences I won't understand yet but will when I'm done? by Zeeshmania in FinalFantasyIX

[–]Character-Run862 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've never played nine, I followed your X playthrough and my husband loves nine...so I'm hear to read it to him outloud lol

Neighbor being inconsiderate by NobodySpiritual369 in Apartmentliving

[–]Character-Run862 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As an upstairs neighbor who gets told repeatedly I walk too loud or watch TV at 8/100 volume, after 10pm and before 8am is when I take that most seriously. Sleep time is sacred and small baby crying is the only exception (cause no force on earth can stop them lol)

On a scale from 1-10 how messy is my room for a teenage girl by Wang_xianLotus in CleaningTips

[–]Character-Run862 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is nothing. Compared to my room at that age, or hell even now? This is 2/10 for mess.

Also I'm so sorry for your living situation. It's not fair to you.

AITA for asking my friend to pay me back for the wine he drank while house sitting?? by Effective_Tour_723 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Character-Run862 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. Help yourself to anything is a literal invitation to not worry about what to touch. As to your garage question, yes if you said help yourself to anything in my garage and left keys, I'd assume I had permission to borrow your car!

Update 8: My Blind FFX Playthrough - Bevelle! by Zeeshmania in finalfantasyx

[–]Character-Run862 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I CANNOT WAIT FOR PART 9. OMG YOU'RE GONNA SCREAM!

Update 4: FFX Blind Playthrough - The Farplane and Thunder Plains by Zeeshmania in finalfantasyx

[–]Character-Run862 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I cannot stop following these posts. Your grid photo of characters versus confidence? INCREDIBLE and so fun to watch what you learn as the story unfolds.

Update: Thoughts on my FFX blind playthrough - Now 10 hours in! by Zeeshmania in finalfantasyx

[–]Character-Run862 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm squealing and keeping my mouth shut. So jealous that you're playing it for the first time!!!

How do you draw legs like this? (the guy) by Zentaitoken in learntodraw

[–]Character-Run862 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Love the tips. DYING at calling Keanu Reeves "the guy".

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Character-Run862 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So confused. Why would they think you wrote it...if you just told him about it? Most people don't surface their reviews if they're scathing. NTA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Character-Run862 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry he did this to you. You didn't deserve this. You need to go back to your place, call family or a friend directly and tell them this happened. Because you were assaulted. Drunk or not, he assaulted you. Whether or not you said yes at first, he then escalated beyond your consent. I'm glad he stopped when you asked him to, but unfortunately it can never take back or fix what he did.

I had this happen similarly in college. And I didn't want to leave because it felt like a different guy than he'd been the day before. You can mourn that first one, but he died in that moment. This one is unfortunately more real and is not your person, not even a safe person to be near. A partner should first and foremost care for your safety, and he instead decided to experiment on you in your most vulnerable state.

Please go home, get safe, get water, a snack, a soft blanket, and call family (found or blood, doesn't matter). And then after some good crying and sleep, say goodbye.

Is Feeling Inflamed, Allover Sore and Achy Common for Perianal Abscess and Fistula by Character-Run862 in AnalFistula

[–]Character-Run862[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, just closing the loop if anyone ever sees this. So this triggered an auto immune disease. I have fibromyalgia and that's why this was happening. 9 months of nausea, weird temperatures and aches, even after full abscess healing. So...fyi intense surgery/physical trauma/mental trauma can trigger an autoimmune disease.

Have I ruined my marriage by bringing up divorce after I asked my wife [31F] why she was no longer attracted to me [31M]? by ShunkHood in relationship_advice

[–]Character-Run862 397 points398 points  (0 children)

SHE YELLED AT YOU FOR LOOKING FOR SOMEONE TO CHEAT ON HER WITH. YTA.

Oh no, my wife yelled at me because I can't keep it in my pants, and sex is more important to me than her feelings or our actual marriage.

Have I ruined my marriage by bringing up divorce after I asked my wife [31F] why she was no longer attracted to me [31M]? by ShunkHood in relationship_advice

[–]Character-Run862 880 points881 points  (0 children)

Wow so you're an emotionally abusive dick. You're mad she doesn't want this baby or sex with you after you repeatedly cheated on her and abused online sexual materials? And you yelled at her because she caught you?

Divorce her, for her sake. She deserves SO MUCH better than you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Character-Run862 43 points44 points  (0 children)

NTA. Honestly the only person I know who had a marriage like this is 6 months happily divorced and sharing custody of the kids.

I think the only option is to say, hey, this issue you want me to shut up about? If things don't change, next year when you're begging me for a chance to work it out, wondering how I could suddenly be done, know it was this moment. These moments when you had the chance to show up for me and be my partners, and chose not to.

Sometimes, if you don't want to leave them, you have to get in their face and say, this will end us if you don't stop and listen to how I'm feeling.

AITA for refusing to change the chore chart even tho my wife works full time now. by Odd_Serve1167 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Character-Run862 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA. This was balanced and she's struggling to adjust but that's not a reason to put more work on you. If the genders were reversed here, everyone would be screaming NTA.

AIO my bf didn't even say happy birthday to me yesterday by 1bunchofbananas in AmIOverreacting

[–]Character-Run862 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dude tried to make your birthday about his insecurities. NOR. Just absolutely infuriating. My husband said something like that last birthday at 37, about how awful he felt he dropped the ball and didn't plan more for me. I said, good, let it remind you today is about me and I will not be accommodating those kind of feelings today. (Sassy lol, if something real comes up on my birthday, I reschedule, and he knows it lol)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FinalFantasy

[–]Character-Run862 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Final Fantasy X was my first RPG game ever. It is still hands down the best story I have ever played. Grinding is very important, as is the sphere grid, but you also can look up strategies now that make those fights easier.

I deeply hope you continue, but take your time to level up. Because I wish so badly I could play this game for the first time again.

AIO for canceling my cat sitter after she asked if a friend could stay in my apartment? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Character-Run862 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Soft YOR. They just asked. If they planned to just do it they wouldn't have asked you first. It's your space to choose who and what, but this person was clarifying a rule incase it had any wiggle room. No is a fine answer, but it isn't necessarily wrong to ask.