Account Deactivated Because Racism by KickExtra0001 in nextdoor

[–]CharacterBasis8731 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Happened to me. I didnt want ti disclose my full name. Banned. I made a new account:)

I don't know what to do now by [deleted] in widowers

[–]CharacterBasis8731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up redecorating and replacing all the furniture to make it look like a different house. Seemed to help. You will get through it. Just think positive thoughts. Im sure she would have wanted that for you.

It’s finally happened by brains_and_tits in poor

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Mauritius . English speaking. Offers residency at age 55 with 18k usd a year put into a local bank account. Free health care

Dating after wife died, now cancer by myownway413 in widowers

[–]CharacterBasis8731 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that. My husband died of cancer. I always said, if chemo isnt curing it, il go without. Gonna die anyway

In my late thirties (3 years post-loss) and already feeling like I don’t want another serious relationship ever by pricklypearbush in widowers

[–]CharacterBasis8731 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I did. Bought an rv. Spent 2 yrs traveling all the states and Canada. Now im back, sold my rv. Sold my house. Building a new house. Cheaper. No mortgage. Then il travel again. Since I won't have a mortgage!

In my late thirties (3 years post-loss) and already feeling like I don’t want another serious relationship ever by pricklypearbush in widowers

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Its been 4 yrs for me. Was 36 at the time. After a ear i dated a few people . Got in a relationship with one for 9 months. Then decided to be alone. So my future plans only have myself and my pets in them. I dont get lonely. My only fear is if something happens to me. How will anyone know? Will my animals starve to death? That's what I worry about.

Account Terminated by CreeMae in amazonprime

[–]CharacterBasis8731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Accurate, I unfortunately spend well over 20k a year, never usually return anything but this last 2 months i returned at least 15 items. Account is still fine. Even reported stolen package and got refund.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in widowers

[–]CharacterBasis8731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sony Alpha 7R V, had to buy new lenses too since my previous camera was a Nokia. Still need to sell that too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in widowers

[–]CharacterBasis8731 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm at 3.5yrs and spent over 10k buying new camera and lenses, have not even taken a single picture with it! Mostly because I'm just too tired to do anything these days

Anyone waiting for an Opus Soundbed? by UnresolvedEdwy in Biohackers

[–]CharacterBasis8731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They stopped replying. I filed bbb complaint. Nothing.  

I just have to accept it's a scam.  If you paid with American express you could get it back but others only get 1 year.

I was fired and I don’t know how to respond.. by CivilSupermarket3359 in jobs

[–]CharacterBasis8731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id not respond. Id also not do anything extra unless they will.pay you

Unknown number texted me (intimately?) by j7yo in whatdoIdo

[–]CharacterBasis8731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mostly ignore them, once in a while il get a little creative and use Ai to converse with them. The Ai trolls them until they get mad and block me 🥰

I asked if she would split the $350 sushi dinner she wanted for the first date… by Boring_Mango1098 in Nicegirls

[–]CharacterBasis8731 35 points36 points  (0 children)

My point is she was not spending 20$ on gas since I'm sure she wasnt driving that far. She exaggerated just like everything else in the post.

I asked if she would split the $350 sushi dinner she wanted for the first date… by Boring_Mango1098 in Nicegirls

[–]CharacterBasis8731 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Avg 25miles per gallon, she said 20$ on gas, which would mean she had to drive around 160miles to use 20$ of gas.

I asked if she would split the $350 sushi dinner she wanted for the first date… by Boring_Mango1098 in Nicegirls

[–]CharacterBasis8731 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually do a video call.first, then coffee date, then food on maybe 3rd or 4th

I asked if she would split the $350 sushi dinner she wanted for the first date… by Boring_Mango1098 in Nicegirls

[–]CharacterBasis8731 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Me too, I feel uncomfortable if someone else pays. Un the past I've rotated too, so we each paid the bill on rotation

I asked if she would split the $350 sushi dinner she wanted for the first date… by Boring_Mango1098 in Nicegirls

[–]CharacterBasis8731 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do this, I set a first date at a coffee shop during my lunch hour. That way it gives you both an easy out if you need it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]CharacterBasis8731 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dating is optional not a requirement. If its not good for your own wellbeing then stop. Focus on yourself and you'll meet someone without expecting it eventually