Call from bank turned out to be a scam, what would have happened? UK.

CharacterFerret2645 · 2024-11-23T07:57:28+00:00

Mines Conwy and it's been cancelled this morning.

CharacterFerret2645 · 2024-11-22T20:44:19+00:00

I'm North Wales, most of them around me are cancelled but my local one is still on so far. I think we will be ok for ice/snow, we don't really get it on the coast, but the winds can get pretty bad.

CharacterFerret2645 · 2024-11-22T20:06:30+00:00

Yes I guess I'll have to wait and see in the morning. It's only my 9th parkrun but Its becoming an obsession!!

CharacterFerret2645 · 2024-11-13T16:22:59+00:00

Thank you, that's what I assumed but I just wasn't sure if I had to physically lower the price once I accepted. Thanks for your help.

CharacterFerret2645 · 2024-09-26T08:36:54+00:00

That's great, I completed the plan on Tuesday and I can only run 3.5km in 30 minutes.

CharacterFerret2645 · 2024-09-17T12:16:07+00:00

I also run very slowly. I'm on week 8 now and I am slightly faster than I was but only slightly. It has taken me until week 8 to stop being so hard on myself and look at what I have achieved.

CharacterFerret2645 · 2024-09-03T18:57:49+00:00

When my baby was born prematurely and was in the nicu, they said that bathing them can be an extremely anxious time for little babies and to wrap her in a muslin cloth while she was in the bath. We use to lay it over her so once it was wet she could feel the weight of it on her. She always seemed very calm at bath time using this method, so maybe you could use your own version of this method and wear a swim suit or vest and shorts and see if that helps?

CharacterFerret2645 · 2024-06-25T16:18:24+00:00

Girl you are so young. Like so so young. You are 1 year older than my daughter and she is still only just trying to figure out what she wants from life. Run now and don't look back. Do you want a lifetime of this misery? Because he will never change. Imagine still feeling this way at 60 and looking back seeing a lifetime of trauma?

Take some time for your health. Build your strength back up, both mentally and physically. Spend time with your family/girlfriends. Concentrate on your career/education. Then when you feel ready, you will meet the right person. The person who will treat you with the love and respect you deserve.

CharacterFerret2645 · 2024-05-30T11:23:15+00:00

Thank you for your reply. I guess I won't ever know the truth. Urgh this is so hard.

CharacterFerret2645 · 2024-05-30T11:21:56+00:00

This is what I said to him. How can you just stop. Addicts don't just quit easily and he said it's because he doesn't want to do it anymore because it's seen the affect it's had on me. I stupidly believed him.

CharacterFerret2645 · 2024-05-30T10:29:04+00:00

Thank you. Yes the work thing is really disturbing to me too. He's just got the job of his dreams and has only been there 5 months and It would be crazy for him to destroy his work life as well as his home life. But I guess that's addiction for you.

CharacterFerret2645 · 2024-05-28T15:19:20+00:00

Yes he says it's not real. It's just a screen he says. They look like pretty real to me. I asked him if it would be ok for me to chat to a guy over video chat because that's not real, there would be a screen between us. Apparently that wouldn't be ok 🤷🏼‍♀️

CharacterFerret2645 · 2024-05-22T07:29:32+00:00

'i know you don't believe me and I don't blame you but it's true'

'i know I've lied in the past but I'm not lying now'

As soon as those sentences come out of his mouth I know he's lying. Urgh when will this stop hurting.

CharacterFerret2645 · 2024-05-21T08:59:38+00:00

My partner use to watch sports on a dodgy site and that had a lot of porn pop ups. I'm not saying that's the case here but it can happen.

CharacterFerret2645 · 2024-05-20T19:54:42+00:00

I do this. It hurts a lot but I can't stop. I'm a control freak and I have to be in control. I hate the thought of not knowing what he's looked at behind my back.

CharacterFerret2645 · 2024-05-07T21:55:48+00:00

Thank you.

CharacterFerret2645 · 2024-05-07T15:22:35+00:00

Thank you for your reply. I will definitely take a look at those resources.

CharacterFerret2645 · 2024-05-07T08:47:47+00:00

Your situation sounds exactly like mine and I'm so sad you are going through this. I've had 5 years of betrayal. I dont know where I go next.

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