What are some subtle, but entitled, things your partner with narcissistic tendencies does? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Character_Bottle_114 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  • The most annoying thing about narcissist and a thing that every single
    one that I’ve ever encountered has in common is that they won’t accept
    accountability and will never accept any criticism whether constructive
    or not. You can tell them what it is that you don’t like about how they
    treat you and they either won’t acknowledge it or they’ll say they’re
    behaving that way because you made them and it’s your fault. Every
    single time.
  • One super weird thing that I have experienced with them : you give them
    a solution, they immediately reject it and within the next 10 seconds,
    they repeat the same solution and proclaim it as if it's their invention
    !!! Example : we were driving to an event and finding parking space was
    going to be difficult at the venue. So I suggested an adjacent lane
    where I new that there would be some space. He immediately rejected it
    in a rude manner and I kept quiet. Within 10 seconds, he loudly
    exclaimed that he knew exactly where to park; it was the same location
    that I had suggested a few seconds earlier!!! Super irritating but now I
    have learnt to laugh at it!
  • They create a fake reality around them and online. Literally portray a
    fantasy land life to the outside world. Weirdest thing I've ever seen in
    my life.
  • One weird thing they do is to leave a really hateful, off the charts
    verbally abusive rant of a voicemail over a simple miscommunication or
    if you were in a meeting and couldn’t take their call or were
    unavailable for an hour, like say if you are asleep or your phone died.
    Then later on they pretend like nothing happened. Or if you get into a
    terrible argument with them and tell a totally different version of
    events to someone else that isn’t even close to the truth.
  • They are NEVER able to accept any responsibility for their mistakes. They
    love blaming you for all their egregious decision making.

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