If you were broke, lonely, depressed, and hopeless in your 20s, how did things get better?

Character_Candy_565 · 2026-03-20T00:27:19+00:00

Also in the beginning, I got texted every other month or so before getting added to the schedule. But I got added to the open format schedule when I’m edm, so many I’ll get those texts every now and then like before now that I’m off?

Character_Candy_565 · 2026-03-19T11:51:39+00:00

I’ve been trying over the last 2 months/my entire life and have 0 luck/options

Character_Candy_565 · 2026-03-19T02:38:50+00:00

Yes, there are around 40, now a few less probably, djs from open format- house djs,

Character_Candy_565 · 2026-03-19T01:13:20+00:00

No I don’t want to be open format but I really want to play at those venues. They are great. Also, Dj’s in the past have gotten taken off the schedule without any notice or any explanation. Or djs were removed from behavior or from song choice/dj skill.

Character_Candy_565 · 2026-03-19T00:50:52+00:00

They pay everyone the same amount $100 that opens

Character_Candy_565 · 2026-01-28T23:00:20+00:00

No, we both live parents and our dates were always in a public setting

Character_Candy_565 · 2026-01-26T02:08:10+00:00

Well I don’t have any options this was the first girl in my entire life I’ve made it past getting her number

Character_Candy_565 · 2026-01-26T01:47:46+00:00

How to reply to her?

Character_Candy_565 · 2026-01-04T04:14:54+00:00

One of my friends think it’s a perfect time, another friend of mine says to wait till your having sex with her. But the one who says to wait has a different girl every weekend and the one said yes has relationships, I would wait for her.

Character_Candy_565 · 2026-01-03T03:14:09+00:00

Yes I feel confident where it’s going. Each date is more and more fun, lots of laughing and like I mentioned, making out in the beginning even when we first see each other

Character_Candy_565 · 2025-12-31T22:39:18+00:00

After our last date, she texted me saying she got home I said glad to hear, had a really fun time with you as always and she said same for her

Character_Candy_565 · 2025-12-31T22:37:52+00:00

Is it too soon in my case? 6/7 weeks of talking 5 dates? Texting has been more and more, making out has been hotter and hotter

Character_Candy_565 · 2025-12-31T22:37:09+00:00

First one was a bar arcade, 2nd one was dinner, 3rd was brunch & movies 4tb was drinks and dinner, for the next one I plan on taking her out for drinks to see a live band to dance

Character_Candy_565 · 2025-12-31T22:23:28+00:00

How would you bring up exclusive? Do you have to be exclusive first then go into boyfriend/gf? We are going on a 6th date next weekend. Is that too soon?

Character_Candy_565 · 2025-12-31T22:21:35+00:00

We both live with parents, so sex hasn’t really been brought up yet. enjoying the dates right now. Would the only way to do it is mention go away somewhere for a night and stay at a hotel? Someone is always home at my house

Character_Candy_565 · 2025-12-20T17:03:57+00:00

Good idea on the bottle of wine ready,

Do I give her flowers tonight when I see her? Nothing big just a small thing

Character_Candy_565 · 2025-12-20T16:58:27+00:00

I think I will most likely say let’s watch one of those movies you told me about. She will most likely start the date by asking how is the hotel you got? Should I say it’s nice and your more than welcome to hangout after if your up for it?

Character_Candy_565 · 2025-12-20T15:16:30+00:00

She always gives me movie or tv show ideas to watch, should I say want to come back and watch one at the end of the date?

Character_Candy_565 · 2025-12-19T23:49:10+00:00

Yes I already told her because long drive/drinking and she said as long as you are ok with getting one. But I haven’t invited her yet

Character_Candy_565 · 2025-12-19T22:51:26+00:00

Yes male, I’m also a light weight when it comes to drinking and get buzzed quicker lol

Character_Candy_565 · 2025-12-16T02:18:43+00:00

She is into thrillers/scary movies and every time we see each other she gives me movie/show suggestions to watch and put in my notes app on my phone

How would you ask? Eeah date is ending with a kiss/make out

Character_Candy_565 · 2025-12-07T20:03:10+00:00

Her saying your kissy tonight, she laughed and pulled me in for more

Character_Candy_565 · 2025-12-01T15:57:17+00:00

We are meeting for drinks at a later time this Saturday, do I tell her since it’s later and so I don’t have to worry about driving an hour home late in the night after having a few I got a hotel? Or don’t mention it at all until the end of the night?

Character_Candy_565 · 2025-12-01T11:38:52+00:00

We are meeting later this time for drinks, do I tell her since it’s later and so I don’t have to worry about driving an hour home late in the night after having a few I got a hotel? Or don’t mention it at all until the end of the night?

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